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Cute Men Vs. Ugly Ones

 
 
Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:26 pm
Why is it when a cute man is checking you out, you feel all warm inside and it makes you feel great about yourself. But when an ugly man is checking you out, you think he's a pervert....quit looking at me, freak...

Is it just me? Am I really that vain that I think only nice looking guys can check me out???
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:28 pm
when something is attractive to the eye, it is more comfortable to accept.
People, furniture, cars..etc
When it is not, we try to avoid it . When someone is staring at you , it makes it near impossible to mindlessly avoid .

Vain? nah.. just human.
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panzade
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:29 pm
no disrespect...but I think it's you...
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Heeven
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:31 pm
When ANY type of male stops checking you out altogether ... <sigh> !
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:31 pm
panzade wrote:
no disrespect...but I think it's you...


Really? I am serious about asking this because it happened today and I was thinking, "what a weirdo...what is he looking at?"
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:32 pm
THAT is true as well heeven.
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Dartagnan
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:33 pm
If an attractive woman smiles at me, my heart soars. What can I say--call me superficial--but I do think it's human nature.

(Mind you, it's nice when any stranger smiles...)
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Heeven
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:33 pm
I have to smack 'em upside the head to make 'em look at me!
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:34 pm
Heeven wrote:
I have to smack 'em upside the head to make 'em look at me!


Someone is sneaking a peek at you without you knowing Heeven...
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Heeven
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:38 pm
Oh no, I know! I saw a cute guy on the train the other day so I just gave myself an eye-bath. Pity he was staring at the pretty blonde standing beside me the whole time! Oh well! I like looking at Shiney objects (reminds me of something shewolf once said) even if my reflection ain't purdy.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:39 pm
http://www.able2know.com/forums/images/avatars/9067527943ff97f18927d2.jpg
Look at this face...are you crazy? It's fantastic! Very Happy
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:39 pm
I can see through your feathers... Shocked


actually I think that when someone you dont find attractive stares at you, it is just a reaction to get angry because you have no control over what you DONT want looking at you.
It isnt about the PERSON so to speak.. it is more about the fact that
1) you dont like them
2) you cant make them STOP

that pisses anyone off.


( smiles at D' )
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:40 pm
shewolfnm wrote:
I can see through your feathers... Shocked


actually I think that when someone you dont find attractive stares at you, it is just a reaction to get angry because you have no control over what you DONT want looking at you.
It isnt about the PERSON so to speak.. it is more about the fact that
1) you dont like them
2) you cant make them STOP

that pisses anyone off.


( smiles at D' )


I am sort of a control freak....
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Dartagnan
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:45 pm
You made my morning, shewolf...
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:53 pm
ok, so think about it this way.
This is sort of a silly analogy but--

Let say you have an office by the window.
Somoene owns a run down piece of **** and their assigned parking space is RIGHT THERE in front of your window.
There it sits , day after day. This ugly, sore spot right in your direction. Facing only you.. all the time.

Tell me that you wouldnt be pissed or upset about that..
and it would be for the exact same reasons.
1) you dont like it
2) you cant stop it.
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iknow
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:55 pm
Re: Cute Men Vs. Ugly Ones
Bella Dea wrote:
Why is it when a cute man is checking you out, you feel all warm inside and it makes you feel great about yourself. But when an ugly man is checking you out, you think he's a pervert....quit looking at me, freak...

Is it just me? Am I really that vain that I think only nice looking guys can check me out???


i want to know what you consider hot. a lot of women call me cute but i've rarely been called hot and i'm a little worried. there is cute, hot, handsome, attractive, i can't tell the difference between them.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:57 pm
there is no diffrence.
just word preferrance
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iknow
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:58 pm
shewolfnm wrote:
there is no diffrence.
just word preferrance


really? then why am i always called cute not hot or handsome or attractive? if you were right i'd be called all three 1/3 each time. or 1/4 whatever
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:59 pm
shewolfnm wrote:
there is no diffrence.
just word preferrance


Exactly.
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Heeven
 
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Reply Wed 24 Aug, 2005 12:59 pm
shewolfnm wrote:
actually I think that when someone you dont find attractive stares at you, it is just a reaction to get angry because you have no control over what you DONT want looking at you.


Very true. When I was younger I was schooled in the ignoring of the lads-who-are-butt-ugly-and-trying-to-catch-your-attention, but now I'd be entertained if the hunchback-of-Notre-Dame looked my way.

If I catch anyone looking at me for longer than 3 seconds I immediately check my nose and chin for stray bits of food, boogers, or whip out the compact mirror to see if I've unconsciously left pen-marks all over my face again.
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