Can Anyone Help Me? My Parents Smoke Pot!! i NEED Advice!!

Take a chill pill honey there are some of us who are on your side

Rather than get upset about ehBeth and co (who i assure you mean well as normally they give good advice) try to think about would you react differently if you had found something else in your parents room - i dunno porn or something. Read their responses with that in mind: to them finding pot is not so big a deal because they don't see anything wrong with the having pot

But that doesn't mean YOU can't see something wrong with it. If it makes you feel bad then you should be able to talk to them about it

Some people are interested in discussing and understanding problems and issues. Other people only want affirmation--and sympathy whether the sympathy is deserved or not.



Maybe the kid not only ignores parental privacy, but feels free to ignore courteous discussion as well.

same boat
im in the same boat as you girl, my mom and dad have smoked weed for as long as i can remember, but now that daddy has a sucky job it sux. My dad only makes 10 bucks and hour, hes the only one that works, and it seems to me that when they buy a bag of weed for 100 bucks it kinda defeats the purpose of even working. They throw their money away on this crap and i hate it!! one post in here said something along the lines of "give them this one pleasure" well i say no!! there is no pleasure in watching hard earned money go down the drain when we're already in frikin poverty!! i say no!! weed is only pleasure for as long as it holds out, when it and your moneys all gone and your livin in the poor house its not very pleasurable. now i wouldnt go as far as telling on them because theyd go to jail and you wouldnt get to see them unless you saw them behind bars......i know how ya feel girl, im pretty much in the same boat as you on this one...

Re: same boat

I had a whole thing explaning my view on Marijuana, but it'll take forever to find it so here is what I think in a short summary.

Marijuana is a wonderful plant that has been disgraced by people lacing it sometimes. Ganja is something to respect, not abuse! That is why I look down on abusers who like to get wasted and die in a car crash. They give people like me who enjoy Marijuana responsibly (spelling?) a bad name!

I hope your parents are not abusing the plant. Ask them if you can join, but if you are not willing to try it then don't. It's your choice, do what you want. But in my experinces I have had my eyes opened and the truth revealed. Marijuana creates thought, thought creates freedom. And the Government doesn't want us to have freedom, so they made Marijuana illeagal.

In Green Day's Dookie album there is a lyric and it says "I finally found out what it takes to be a man, well mom and dad will never understand, whats happening to me!".

I finally understand what it takes to be a man. You have to stand up for what you believe in, you have to stand up for your rights! I will stand up for my right to smoke Cannabis! Because thats what I believe in!

I could go on forever about Marijuana and its spritual healing capabilites! But it's getting late and I have to go to bed soon.

Visit some sites if you want to learn more.

www.hippy.com

http://www.thc-ministry.net/

http://www.erowid.org/

So peace out and remember! Stay Cool, Skate Hard, and Stay Stoned!

-Zassou Kitsuensha

I find it interesting that people need pot at all. I feel that any kid, child, whatever has the right to object to their parents real wrong behavior ie drug use, alchoholism, smoking. When you become a parent you do need to set the role model. If you cannot, or choose not to show proper behavior, DONT HAVE KIDS! I've seen lame answers in here that the kid should lighten up. WRONG! Maybe her reason for initialy complaining may not be right, but it is a problem that her PARENTS need to address. I suppose that you people that are saying she should lighten up are the same ones who think they should get their kids stoned. We, as parents need to set the positive example. Not be hypocrits. If you tell your kids not to smoke, don't do it with a cigarette in your mouth, or, when you send your kids to get your smokes.

Nah, never mind. Society is too stupid. Lets just get our kids stoned and drunk from birth, that way we can have a more screwed up value system.

Wow. This thread is intense and interesting.

Hopelessteen, you have a right to your own opinions and feelings concerning your parents choice to smoke pot (and anything else for that matter): but you do NOT have a right to be the boss of the house.
Talk to your parents about it, let them know how you feel, and allow them the chance to do the same. They are adults, they are providing for you well and they treat you well: you may have to just deal with the fact that your parents make some choices which you do not agree with. I know how difficult that is to do when you feel so strongly about something; but it is part of maturing.

Treat your parents with respect. Do not rummage through their stuff. Treat them the way that you want to be treated: and you will show some exceptional maturity. They will tell you more if they feel they can trust you to respect their boundaries and choices.

When I was 13 I hated that my parents smoked cigarettes. I went extreme and destroyed over $100 dollars worth of tobacco. I was punished and I earned back that money. It was an important lesson in growing up. We have to treat others the way we wish to be treated.
Be thankful you have loving, kind parents who work to give you the best.

People wounder why teens kill themself? Isn't is obvious they have parents like you. My statement below has nothing to do with religoius beliefs in anyway.

I hope that you have not lilistened to about half of what was said to you, there are alot of stupid/trashy, and pathetic excuses of humanbeings out there. I'm only 16 years old and I can guarante each and everone of you that I CAN (and will) give better adadvicehan the garbage that was posted on here. You are supposed to be so called "ADULTS"! And what do you do you turn around and bash her I quote " Maybe her parents smoke because she nosses in their stuff?" "pots not a big deal" The 13 year old girl has more sesincehan most of you do. I'd think about that if I wear you. This is not a funny moment or something to take lightly but maybe the reason for all the brainless remarks is because your all potheads and everything is so funny... It's a logical conclusion you support pot and think its "harmless". Marijuana is a hallasunage, has NO medical pepurposealters your peperception can cause panic attacks, cancer of the head, lung cancer, destroys brain cells, can cause sudden out burst of anger, aggreiveness It can destroy relationships. And lets face it who wants to put up with some one under the influence of Marijuana? Listen if you have sat down and talked with your "parents" about how your feelings are toward their little habit, and there is still no change then go to your school cocounselorr a teacher that you are close to and explain to them what is going on at home. This is alot to go ththrought 13, I'm VERY sorry you have to deal with it and on top of that put up with the remarks that people (if they can be called that) make on here.
Hope everything works out for you... take care

Wow! I think someone needs to start a thread about teens taking over their parents lives. we could even start a movie called "Teens take control"!

What a scary thought!

Plain fact: Everyone has opinions.

Debatable fact: Some opinions are more valid than others.

The doctor is IN !!!

I'm graduating erly this year.
I will start going to medical school next year..... so the Doctor thing is not that far off. And if you ask a doctor what the side affects are they will tell you the same thing.

Helplessteen, The best thing you can do is go talk to your perents if you trust and love them. You are their child and they need to know what you are going through concerning them and their pot. It might not even be their pot. By the way Pink Floyd smokes pot. Please go talk to your perents you,ll be glad you did.

Most doctors are literate. They understand the differences between "affects" and "effects". They do not equate "a doctor" with "they".

Also, most of them can spell.

Ooooooo, ehbeth got moted.

helplessteen, Your too young to be talking about such things alone with a bunch of strangers. Well confuse you more. GO TALK TO YOUR PARENTS

Does she still have the pot?

I'm out.

Learn to write and spell before you enter medical school. No, better yet, learn how to think first. I believe it's a requirement in med school.

Thinking is a requirement in med school, Merry?

Great, just friggin' great.

You just shattered another one of my dreams.

I suggest we all leave this venue and let helplessteen and Lady_07 talk it out between themselves. You know, peer-to-peer. They apparently share a number of things in common, including a penchant for creative spelling.