Crazielady420 wrote:Just to update everyone... still no luck in finding a place... but him and I are doing a little better... I believe he may have just figured out the definition of communication!! Things aren't as bumpy as they were before... but we talked about what where to happen if we break up.. who would get the place and what not... well he wants the place... but so do I.... it is very difficult!! We have gotten in fewer arguements lately....maybe because I just give in so much... All I know is Spring is coming and it is my favorite season and I think that season needs a fresh start!! I love the spring and I want to be happy in the Spring... I want to find the old me!!! I am going to find the old me!
I just started to read this thread and I see many, many red flags here.
When people communicate, they generally do not talk about what would happen when they break up and how they would divide the assets. That is for people who are breaking up because of lack of communication.
"I know he will change" is a well worn phrase. No, he will not change! This is a hard pill to swallow, but it is realistic. Several people have given you some very sound advice. I urge you to listen to them. You have a long life ahead of you and making the correct decisions now will determine the direction that you take with that life.
Good luck to you and God Bless
