What should I think about my husband and his internet porn?

Read what you wrote again and then we'll talk about disrespect.

You said "you HATE porn WHAT?? if you detest your partner looking at porn then something is wrong with YOU", so you are disrespecting the views of everyone who doesn't agree ;-)

one can percieve it in that manner yes, however that is not the intended message, your perception are not everyones, someone who is posed that statement to them can see it in many different ways, some can be disrespected by it(not reality) some can take it at face value and examine themselves to see if there's any truth in my statement(reality) and there are several other possibilities for interpretation there, but i do not quote other people's statements and then roll my eyes at them, i can be adamant about something, but when you hate religion you don't go burning Bibles in front of a church

LOL. Yeah, that makes sense.

again I roll the eyes and add a little laughter

=/

ps. is =/ too short for a post on this forum, i suppose i should read the rules first.

=/ is expressing a feeling of slight sadness with a pinch of failure and empathy

You disrespected my views when you made the statement I quoted 2 posts back, so I rolled my eyes.

Am I suppose to understand what this is suppose to mean?

I don't want there to not be a friendly atmosphere between us, and i hope that that is the case, i was not personally attacking you....... i apologize if you feel that i was, but the intended message is apparently not what you perceived, this can be likened to being cut off in traffic, most of the time the person doing the cutting off is not personally trying to cut the other person off to make them feel like they are less of a person, they're doing it just because they have no regard for the other persons values, but it isn't that they're trying to disrespect those values, however the person being cut off perceives it this way

one person does something, the other reacts, it's all in the perception, i didn't DO anything, i made a statement and you made it into disrespecting your views, the message was not to be interpreted that way

Hey, no big deal. No hard feelings.

thank you <3

in regards to the other post, i felt a need to express myself and no reason not to, so i did, and i was attempting to label my feelings appropriately

And that's your right. I was just expressing myself as well ;-)

Montana reads romance novel porn, so she's on shaky ground here. Or should that read "..his passionate caresses made my body swoon with delight, as if the earth moved beneath my feet".

ooo, we have a new person here to keep this thread going...

shaddix, there is no point arguing with these pron battered women because they are already convinced that porn has ruined their lives and that their husbands are some kind of demented pig. Ok, some of them might be but.... oh, nevermind I can't get into this thread again or I will implode.

Hey, did anyone see the article on porn being broadcast to cell phones? They kept showing pictures of Playboy magazine covers.

Since when was Playboy considered porn?

shaddix...meet montana
You don't mess around with montana.
She's the coolest.

Plastic looking airbrushed images don't turn anyone on, do they?

It's not just that, it's that Playboy isn't porn by any stretch of the imagination. It isn't any different than hanging out at the beach in Europe.

yeah, I hear ya. Why do guys spend the money on them? Do boobs really turn you on that much? Just curious. Since they are all fake in there anymore anyway.

Speaking of boobs, did you hear you can now have them inserted through your bellybutton? I almost threw up when I heard that.

Guys who love big boobs ought to be Strongly Encouraged to witness this operation, don't you think?

Hey, is there a gagging smiley?

Thats as close to a gaggin' smile I can find...haha

Oh man, that's not just gagging, it's the full barf! Just as appropriate, though.