What should I think about my husband and his internet porn?

I tried showing my wife some of my Internet porno. She said it looked just like I do in real life, rolled over, and fell asleep.

My ex used to look at porn. He had the sites bookmarked on our computer. I found it very disheartening. I wrote him a letter telling him how I felt. I even deleted the bookmarks. I tried talking to him about it. My values are very much against porn. My ex's values about porn and sex are very different. What bothered me about the porn is you usually couldn't even see the people. Just the action parts. I thought it was disgusting. I my ex was a sex addict. It didn't matter if he was getting it or not.

I feel very bad for you. When there is a moral or values difference with partners it makes life very difficult.

for Montana


romance <grin>

You tryin to tell me somethin, Beth? LOL!

I see your point in some romance novels being what you describe, but I don't read those ones. The ones I read are all older books with some dating back to the 60s.
I guess the novels of today have gotten quite smutty, so I'll stay away from those ones ;-)

It's a fun site.

I can see that ;-)

well i haven't been on for a while and welll things are coool at hme now... so don't lose the faith address the problem... talk like adults and compremise and bit and soon u can have a healthy sex life and loving attention and come to terms with not peaking at his personal porn. AS LONG AS HE AND YOU RESPECT U and HIM!

xx

Sounds good, wasveryhappy (what a tough handle you have to type). Talking, compromise and respect - that's what adults can do.

Good news indeed.

happy st paddys day all!! I'm off for some kinky irish sex.... potatoes, whisky and guiness here i come!! hee hee...just kidding!

Mmmmmmm sounds good!

Especially the "kinky irish sex"

HA HA! had a really good night last night. Stayed up playing cards but now am really tired!

kinky irish sex + stayed up late playing cards = strip bridge?

:wink:

no too many friends around - no no they weren't lepricorns!

Internet Porn Issue
Hello Katie,
I was just wondering if you are still having the same problem with your husband. This week I discovered that my husband is looking at porn when I am not home or asleep. I am infuriated because he is keeping it from me, not really because he is doing it.
I don't trust him anymore in that aspect. We have been together for a long time and married for only 9 months, so I think that keeping things from me is unacceptable. I would like to install some software on our computer that does what yours does. Where did you get it from? I told my husband that I cannot trust him for a very long time, and so he is going to have to make every effort to rebuild my trust. Unfortunately this is going to be one of those ways.
Do you have any tips for me on where to find this software? Please reply by e-mail. Thanks.
Megan in Bloomington, IN
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ok!! my bf's friend spent 3hrs saying how **** his bird was for not telling him whole truth and keeping secrets about smoking...how he couldn't trust her now as he thought relationship was based on trust... my man argued on her behalf.. but his mate kept saying but if she'd said the addiction was too much he's of understood...but lying.. thats just bad... today..he said.. i get it.. u just want to know.. and i said yes... so two days later and ..tonight i walked in and bf had door shut...so i knocked on door and entered .. he looked embarassed ,,, so i say...i know what u up to.. i'll sneak under desk..if u haven't finished and we'll see what happens..
and he was really embarassed but i let him play... and all i said was promise ..not if i'm sleeping as that will hurt... he said absolutely..

thats our personal compremise. not if he's up late and i'm sleeping.. he mustn't... but if i'm out and all the important chores are done thats cool.. if i'm off and i fancy pleasing myself all day thats cool...