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Wed 1 Apr, 2015 03:30 pm
Ok so there is this girl that i have been friends with for about a year and a half. We see each other and talk just about everyday. I didn't really like her at first but i slowly started to develop a crush on her and now i catch myself thinking about her a lot. The only problem is, i don't think she likes me at all. Sometimes she talks about other guys around me and kind of treats me like a brother. She always messes with me and teases me a lot. Sometimes we kind of play around and act like a married couple, and our friends seem to think that we like each other. When someone says that she likes me, she said that its kind of annoying. i Think i'm in the friend-zone to be honest.. and i don't want to ruin our friendship over this crush i have for her. Last year i told her i liked another girl and that's when people started saying she likes me because she would always sit next to me and try to grab my attention. We always enjoy each others company even though she refuses to stop teasing me now-a-days. I try to ignore and avoid her but she gets mad at me when i do that. I want to tell her how i feel but i don't think its a good idea. Also, we kind of argue over dumb stuff often.. but anyways, Any advice? I also try my best to do nice things for her like hug her and give her candy and stuff like that, but i'm not really seeing much of an interest from her.. idk i don't really understand girls
Can't understand teenage girls?
Welcome to the world!
From what you have said, I think she DOES like you. Now - since most teenage girls expect the guy to be assertive, the next step should be yours. Ask her out or to go somewhere where it's just you two. Ice cream shop, movie, walk, shopping, etc. You really need to get to know each other more before you give yourself over to saying you have a "crush."
Ready to take the next step?
@Patrick454,
It has been a year since your first topic. Don't you think it is time to move on, both from this obsession with this girl and your obsession with posting about your angst about this girl?
Here is a list of all the topics you've started about the same girl, many of which you just copy and paste from for your next topic. Go back and read what has already been said many times before.
So my crush got yet another boyfriend.... I an angry with myself, what now?
http://able2know.org/topic/241813-1
Whats going on in her mind?
http://able2know.org/topic/246619-1
Could she be jealous?
http://able2know.org/topic/251761-1
is she being shy or is she not interested?
http://able2know.org/topic/250625-1
Should i just give it all up? I feel like its just unrequited love... What should i do..? How can a
http://able2know.org/topic/254144-1
Is she interested?
http://able2know.org/topic/256355-1
Is she interested ?
http://able2know.org/topic/258708-1
Does it sound like my crush likes this other guy?
http://able2know.org/topic/258786-1
Should i just forget about her?
http://able2know.org/topic/269662-1
@Butrflynet,
I've already moved on from the girl you are referring to, it took awhile to realize that not only is she not whats best for me, but she isn't worth obsessing over
@Patrick454,
They have college courses which can teach you how women's bodies work but nobody knows exactly how their MINDS work. Some people say their minds and nervous systems are similar to those of cats, i.et. hat they seem to want the same kinds of things which cats do....
@Patrick454,
Ah right, listen to Gunga, and buy a ball of yarn, a mouse stuffed with catnip, and a couple of sticks with foil strips glued on top. Girls love that stuff according to Grunga.
@gungasnake,
gungasnake wrote:
They have college courses which can teach you how women's bodies work but nobody knows exactly how their MINDS work. Some people say their minds and nervous systems are similar to those of cats, i.et. hat they seem to want the same kinds of things which cats do....
I was referring to gunga's sage advice about the workings of the female mind.
@Patrick454,
I suggest "occasionally" make some lighthearted sexual jokes and comments. Sometimes make playful sexual jokes or comments about yourself. Sometimes make playful sexual jokes or comments about her. Keep it lighthearted and playful. Don't be vulgar. If she is receptive you can grow from that. You will see yourself gradually moving out of the friend zone. This might take days, weeks, or possibly months. This is one of the basic techniques of flirting. For someone who is trapped in the friend zone, this flirting technique may prove to be useful.
@Real Music,
Real Music wrote:
I suggest "occasionally" make some lighthearted sexual jokes and comments. Sometimes make playful sexual jokes or comments about yourself. Sometimes make playful sexual jokes or comments about her. Keep it lighthearted and playful. Don't be vulgar. If she is receptive you can grow from that. You will see yourself gradually moving out of the friend zone. This might take days, weeks, or possibly months. This is one of the basic techniques of flirting. For someone who is trapped in the friend zone, this flirting technique may prove to be useful.
I think this is the worst possible advice you could give a boy in high school. Most grown men stink at sexual innuendo and more often than not women become insulted and repelled at the same time. Patrick, don't listen to real music unless you want to be known as the creepy guy.
@glitterbag,
Thanks, although i already knew that from the beginning lol
@glitterbag,
My mistake. Please accept my apology. I thought this person was an adult.
@Real Music,
Even if he was thirty years old your advice still stinks. If you are trolling for barflys your advice is great, however, I hope as this kid grows up and older he will always be adverse to behaving like a sleezeball as you suggest. Lousy, lousy advice.
Just kiss her with all your heart. Can be strong, can be soft, just kiss her.
And see what happens next.
@carloslebaron,
Another great idea from a guy who doesn't respect boundaries. He is not in a Doris Day movie, he's a kid. If he makes a move like that, he will be hounded mercilessly by the kids.
Girls and guys do like other kids who can make them laugh, be natural, not mean spirited. And try to stop worrying so much.
@Real Music,
A lot of people think i act older than i actually am
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