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Is she interested?

 
 
Reply Thu 2 Oct, 2014 08:30 pm
She used to SHOW many signs of interest such as talking and smiling at me a lot, offering me things, sitting next to me, looking at me,etc.. This was awhile ago but after i told her i had feelings for her, she STARTEDacting shy around me, she wouldnt talk to me unless i takled to her and she would look down. I Didn't talk to her for months thinking she didnt like me. After that she got back with her ex who she is broken up with now. When she was with him, she said "maybe we could be great friends" to me.She still acts the same way as before and we haven't talked in awhile. We just got out of summer break. We are on day 3. Since day 1 she has been acting the same and we havent been talking, Sometimes i see her looking at me when i'm not looking. At the bus stop on the first day she picked up her PHONE and said "let me call my boyfriend" And i know she has one because he used to be a friend of mine. They are rarely together though... idk my friend said she was trying to make me jealous. The point is... i really like her but i have no clue what to do... does she like me? i can't ever stop thinking about her man :/What should i do? I Also a friend last year asked her if she liked me and she said no... Maybe she is in denial? idk... I'm STARTING to THINK she isn't interested.. idk






i was talking to this other girl on the bus and she tried to jump into our conversation... of COURSEi ignored her and what we were talking about was kind of inappropriate... but the girl i was talking to told her...Who knows.... i really don't think she is interested though :/ If she is then let me know... cuz i don't really see it. Why can she talk to any other guy but me!? I was walking next to her in the hallway and she started to look down until i walked past her...


there were 2 times when i was talking to another girl and she interrupted... Yet she never talks to me face to face... today we were in class and she gave her kik to this guy RIGHT in my face :/ I don't know if it was friendly or not but either way... it kind of bothered me :/ She was kept looking at me in class today. My friend told me that he can see her staring at me secretly. It was only a few times though so no huge deal.. Regardless,,, I want to MOVE on but its hard.


We were on the bus and i decided to talk to her friend(The girl sitting next to her) So yeah her friend playfully threatened me and i was playing along... then the girl who ignores me started saying stuff like "I can beat his ***" she was making a joke out of it i think... but my question is... Why talk about me if you ignore and try and avoid me.... i don't get it... Is she just being a jackass or something? This is the second time she has interfered when i talk to another girl
 
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Reply Thu 2 Oct, 2014 08:51 pm
@Patrick454,
wow
this is all so familiar

http://able2know.org/topic/254144-1#post-5758557

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i really like this girl, there is no doubt about it, My Feelings are strong for her. Things have been confusing for awhile though. She used to SHOW many signs of interest such as talking and smiling at me a lot, offering me things, sitting next to me, looking at me,etc.. This was awhile ago but after i told her i had feelings for her, she started acting shy around me, she wouldnt talk to me unless i takled to her and she would look down. I Didn't talk to her for months thinking she didnt like me. After that she got back with her ex who she is broken up with now. When she was with him, she said "maybe we could be great friends" to me.She still acts the same way as before and we haven't talked in awhile. We just got out of summer break. We are on day 3. Since day 1 she has been acting the same and we havent been talking,


especially funny that a month later it is still day 3
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Butrflynet
 
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Reply Thu 2 Oct, 2014 09:16 pm
Is this all about the same girl or different girls? If the same girl, your obsession is starting to border on the creepy. Give her a break for awhile. If she is trying to be anything other than just polite in an awkward situation when you talk with her, she will let you know.

Also, if it is all about the same girl, do you really want to be hooked up with someone who, from your monthly accounts, appears to waiver between boyfriends every month?

http://able2know.org/topic/241813-1#post-5640268

April 18, 2014
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Its a long story, but i was already worried about my crush going back to her ex, and now she is broken up with him and has another boyfriend. She used to show many signs that she liked me, but i was too shy to ask her out so she went back to her ex and now she is broken up with him and is with someone else. Note that she was keeping distant from me when she was with the first dude and still is.


http://able2know.org/topic/246619-1#post-5684711

June 6, 2014

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So there is this girl that i really like, but things have gotten awkward. Its a Long story, but i will try to make it small. So i told her i liked her, she says she already knew i liked her and she seemed flattered. The next day she starts acting shy whenever i was around. She is usually outgoing so it was confusing. Whenever i would talk to her, she would Smile really hard and look down.... She acted like she just didn't know what to say... I distanced myself from her because i wasn't sure what to do about it. Her best Friend comes to me and apparently he said that she asked him why i stopped talking to her. I didn't believe that so i didn't worry about it and didn't talk to her for months. She got back with her ex(Who she is broken up with now) She said we could maybe be great friends after she told me she got back with her ex. Now we just sometimes pretend the other doesn't exist. I Just don't know what to do. She is acting so differently from how she used to act. Even after i told her i liked her she started acting different.... Maybe she just moved on? I don't know... All i know is that i can't get my mind off of this and i Truly like her and its kind of my fault for not showing her that i did. I just didn't know what to do because she is acting so strange. A friend of mine asked her if she liked me without me knowing and she said no. Could she just be shy or playing hard to get?



http://able2know.org/topic/250625-1#post-5726944

July 26, 2014
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There is this girl i like but things have gotten awkward. I met her in 9th grade. She used to show plenty of signs that she liked me for example,Looking and smiling at me all the time, Talking to me a lot, Sitting next to me when she usually sat alone, She offered me things, Its almost as if she was just making an excuse to talk to me. Then in tenth grade i told her i had feelings for her. The next day she Starts acting shy and kind of avoids me. She wouldn't talk to me unless i talked to her. She used to look into my eye for 2 seconds and smile and look down. i took this the wrong way and thought she wasn't interested and didn't talk to her for months. Afterwards i talk to her again and she told me she got back with her ex, who she is broken up with now. I wrote her a letter to her so she knows i still like her. This is where i am stuck at. She is still acting the same as she did before. She won't give me any eye contact and if she does its only for like 1 second. She avoids me, If i try to talk to her, she is listening but she is just not acting like her normal self (note she is usually very enthusiastic with everyone) She won't go out of her way to talk to me anymore and she talks with everyone else around me (mutual friends) I want to talk to her but i just keep saying to myself.. Should i even make the effort. A friend of mine asked her if she liked me and she apparently said no. I think she may be hiding her true feelings. She did just go through a break up after all.


http://able2know.org/topic/251761-1#post-5738734

August 11, 2014

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Ok so me and my crush and her friend were waiting at our bus stop because the bus was running really late. The 3 of us were just standing there waiting and they started talking. We were all standing right next to each other so we clearly saw each other, although i pretend my crush isn't there all the time anyways. I started talking to her friend and my crush starts turning away an acting like she wasn't listening.. basically acting a little weird.. then she said "let me call my boyfriend" and she picked up her phone and put it to her ear for about 3 to 5 seconds and after that she said "he" didn't answer... could she have tried making me jealous to?


http://able2know.org/topic/254144-1#post-5758557

September 7, 2014

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i really like this girl, there is no doubt about it, My Feelings are strong for her. Things have been confusing for awhile though. She used to SHOW many signs of interest such as talking and smiling at me a lot, offering me things, sitting next to me, looking at me,etc.. This was awhile ago but after i told her i had feelings for her, she started acting shy around me, she wouldnt talk to me unless i takled to her and she would look down. I Didn't talk to her for months thinking she didnt like me. After that she got back with her ex who she is broken up with now. When she was with him, she said "maybe we could be great friends" to me.She still acts the same way as before and we haven't talked in awhile. We just got out of summer break. We are on day 3. Since day 1 she has been acting the same and we havent been talking, Sometimes i see her looking at me when i'm not looking. At the bus stop on the first day she picked up her phone and said "let me call my boyfriend" but she hung up after like 3 seconds... idk my friend said she was trying to make me jealous. The point is... i really like her but i have no clue what to do... does she like me? i can't ever stop thinking about her man :/ i know she could have been telling the truth about having a boyfriend but i took what my friend said in consideration.... What should i do? I Also a friend last year asked her if she liked me and she said no... Maybe she is in denial? idk... I'm STARTING to THINK she isn't interested.. idk


We were on the bus and she was staring at me from behind while i was talking with my friend... idk why but she was, And today we were in class and she gave her kik to this guy RIGHT in my face :/ I don't know if it was friendly or not but either way... it kind of bothered me :/ She was kept looking at me in class today. She was also hugged up with some other guy on the bus :/ i dont know why that bothers me, but it does.... My friend told me that he can see her staring at me secretly


i was talking to this other girl on the bus and she tried to jump into our conversation... of course i ignored her and what we were talking about was kind of inappropriate... but the girl i was talking to told her...Who knows.... i really don't think she is interested though :/ If she is then let me know... cuz i don't really see it. Why can she talk to any other guy but me!? I know i've asked this question A thousand times but i just can't stop thinking about her..


Today she didn't really look at me much because she was so focused on talking to other guys... It really makes me upset how she does it to multiple guys and not me... She can talk to almost anyone but me man... I Also think she is has a boyfriend because she was walking around with this guy that i saw her hugging .... You rarely see them together at all though...
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Fri 3 Oct, 2014 08:57 am
I just cannot help but laugh when I see a line like this.
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Sometimes i see her looking at me when i'm not looking.
Just trying to figure out how he sees her when he's not looking.

Stuff like this just seems to make my day a bit lighter.
Patrick454
 
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Reply Fri 3 Oct, 2014 07:08 pm
@CoastalRat,
Ok i was looking through the corner of my eye...
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