Anyone have any advice?
Not that I would be so kind. . . . But I have no trouble suggesting
From the point of view of "the committee nature of self", the "I" that holds the grudge is as ephemeral as the "I" who evokes the grudge. It could be a case of folie a deux on the part of transient committee members.
This picture is taken from Gurdjieff's psychological position, in which he also says "negative thoughts" constitute "wasting of energy by wrong work of (brain)centres" thereby impeding progress towards "higher consciousness".
I have no personal view on the matter other than an appreciation for "the system" as a potentially functional construction.
"the committee nature of self", the "I