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Question to married men who have anothe woman

 
 
One Eyed Mind
 
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Reply Thu 11 Sep, 2014 07:21 pm
@melissabenedict,
*hugs*

I support your psychical healing.
melissabenedict
 
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Reply Fri 12 Sep, 2014 01:34 pm
@One Eyed Mind,
Thank you! It's going to be a long and difficult road, but at least I can see a glimpse of light instead of the darkness I've been living in.
One Eyed Mind
 
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Reply Fri 12 Sep, 2014 10:09 pm
@melissabenedict,
If you ever want to talk, feel free to. I study the human mind and everything for a living - hell, I don't study, I am the study.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 08:13 am
@One Eyed Mind,
So have you ever wondered about what I had asked for?
Thinking about it more and more makes me think that cheaters do not love their spouses.
Can you really love your spouse and go **** someone else?
This is why Melissa's story is driving me up a wall!
Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 08:15 am
@One Eyed Mind,
Women love:
bums
cheaters
alcoholics
physical abusers
...watch day shows.
CalamityJane
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 08:41 am
@Eliusa,
Please don't talk in plural, Eliusa!
You might like these things, but not all women are like you!
I never in my life would accept or have what you describe.

Aside from that, I have to say that you're quite limited in your abilities
to grasp interpersonal relationships between people.
Germlat
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 08:41 am
@Eliusa,
Eliusa wrote:

Women love:
bums
cheaters
alcoholics
physical abusers
...watch day shows.

Who do you love?
Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 08:45 am
@CalamityJane,
WHAT???
I AM going to talk plural because I am not the one who loves those men but other women do and if you think that I was aiming at you lol - I wasn't.
And when it was said that women like strong independent men I thought it was odd. Who is living with all the rest of those men? WOMEN!!! PLURAL!!!
Germlat
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 08:50 am
@Eliusa,
Eliusa wrote:

WHAT???
I AM going to talk plural because I am not the one who loves those men but other women do and if you think that I was aiming at you lol - I wasn't.
And when it was said that women like strong independent men I thought it was odd. Who is living with all the rest of those men? WOMEN!!! PLURAL!!!

Keep goring the questions that make you uncomfortable. Ignore your conscience ....you're good at it.
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Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 08:54 am
@Germlat,
I don't really know anymore to be honest with you.
I love sensitive and sexy man right now and I am happy.
I would never put up with abuse or force. I would not tolerate cheating and lying. But now it all went kaboom! and my mind is in a gutter:))
Germlat
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 09:19 am
@Eliusa,
Eliusa wrote:

I don't really know anymore to be honest with you.
I love sensitive and sexy man right now and I am happy.
I would never put up with abuse or force. I would not tolerate cheating and lying. But now it all went kaboom! and my mind is in a gutter:))

You can have your mind is the most sizzling gutter all you want without deceit. It's not one or the other.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 09:20 am
@Germlat,
I didn't understand that. But I would like to. Explain please
Germlat
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 09:23 am
@Eliusa,
Eliusa wrote:

I didn't understand that. But I would like to. Explain please

Meaning you can have the hottest relationship and not have to deceive anyone.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 09:27 am
@Germlat,
How?
Germlat
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 09:35 am
@Eliusa,
Eliusa wrote:

How?

By freeing yourself of a marriage that no longer works for you. Then even if your"flame" doesn't work out in the sack, someone certainly will.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 09:39 am
@Eliusa,
Eliusa wrote:

Can you really love your spouse and go **** someone else?


that's clearly the case for a number of men and women who are in committed relationships and also have **** buddies
ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 09:40 am
@Eliusa,
Eliusa wrote:
Thinking about it more and more makes me think that cheaters do not love their spouses.


you may not love your husband, but don't extrapolate your problems and feelings onto other people
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 09:42 am
@Eliusa,
Eliusa wrote:
I love sensitive and sexy man right now and I am happy.

I would not tolerate cheating and lying.



you are having an emotional affair. you are cheating on your husband.

why should your husband tolerate your cheating?

do you understand how unfair you are being to your husband?

_________

It is past time to leave your husband.

You will find out soon enough if the man you are crushing on truly cares for you.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 09:43 am
@ehBeth,
Because they do not LOVE!!! They are cozy and settled. How come you don't get it?
Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 13 Sep, 2014 09:47 am
@ehBeth,
No one does that. And you know it. I have rights to have an emotional affair if I want to. Maybe I am sorting things out for myself for future. As I said my husband is happy. There is no harm done to him.
 

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