50 in love

Stop thinking of only you...parent abandonment is what troubles you? WOW. How about her devastation to find out you're a deceiver. Her displeasure at the pain this may have caused her father. Her damaged perception concerning loyalty/faithfulness. My guess is your husband is your meal ticket, otherwise you'd given him an ultimatum ( we either to sex therapy/ counseling together or get divorced). My problem with you is your lack of honesty . I may have some empathy but still see your simply trying to rationalize cheating. Let's us know what happens when you get the bill. Last post.

yes

more than one

the children sided with the parent/s who were cheated on

they knew before the other parent/s did - they could tell by the way the cheater/s acted toward the other parent/s

Been liking yours all the way through myself Germlat

See how you are destroying him inside as a Man? I can here you " You can't get it up, I want sex, go see a Doctor, should I sleep with another man". And, now I can feel him " anger inside, useless, emotionally drained"...



Your Husband already knows. He's just waiting for his world to crash down on him. You truly believe that he is giving you his permission? He knows from your "constant" words and insinuation, manipulation ready to blame him.

Body language speaks volumes. He's not the only one who knows or suspects and I imagine some of those people are talking behind your back, whilst others are throwing it out of their mind, choosing not to believe it.

What about this guys Wife? I know he doesn't have sex with her, she's not interested you both are in the same boat but he'd never leave her ever.

Never is a long time Eliusa. Everybody gets caught out, her husband probably has "chosen" to ignore what he knows. Like I said, body language speaks volumes.



1.. What Eh-Beth said.
2.. She's 20. Even if she chose to still love you, she will hate you at the same time, she loves her Father as well are you that blind? Are you that self centred that you believe the World revolves around you? Does not matter that you destroy your husband's heart. Does not matter that your 20 year old daughter will forever believe that love to the day you die, actually does not exist she will be cheated on, or go on to cheat. Great Motherly example.

I'm 50
I'm in love

You're 50
You're in lust

And worse. You feel that the World owes you and you will get away with what ever you desire at any cost, to anyone.

When you could have just walked enjoyed your life and left some respect for others in your life.

I say could have because I know you won't.

You have a house, business, you don't want to stand on your own two feet nor be poor.

I'm really sorry but selfishness and me don't go down very well together.

No one is no ones meal ticket here.
I work even MORE that he does in our business.
And I am so glad you people are so perfect.
Where are the cheaters coming from than? If everyone is just like you?

Whenever posters have to resort to the above, or similarly "I'm sorry if...." , they've lost all cred.

Ok, today was the first time I read this thread start to finish.

So far, she's hit 6 of my top 10 favorites...

"I'm so glad you.....
You don't know me.
You have no idea.
You're making assumptions
I'm sorry if...
How can you possibly know..."


I've got to give extra credit for this one...

"Have you ever thought maybe this is why we all here writing out our shameful stories? "

Is that why we're all here?

Skimming from beginning to end in one sitting, I'm 98% convinced all this is made up.

First of all I don't care about creds.
It is not like I had any.
I wrote that sentence because I was hoping to find someone in the same situation who gracefully got out of it without damage to anyone.
Instead I was given all sorts of info for which I had not come here.
However I am grateful to all of you for everything.
I had learned some, however I am still wondering if you all are really saints here.
And no, chai, it is all truth and correct.
I am still going to say you don't know me because you don't.
However I am exist and I am very hurt and emotionally destroyed with love, lust and guilt. I am probably going to stay where I am and never move forward with cheating but loving this man is going to hit me somewhere one day and I am just going to crush.

It would be the better solution indeed.


Or not.
Many one day realize it was just an infatuation or lust and are happy they didn't go ahead.

I am sorry I am only here because this situation I am in I am not proud of but I have to tell someone. I have to pour my guts out so I will not burst.
Anything is said to me is ok, I can't really comprehend a lot for last 2 month anyway.
I have decided to keep this professional as a business and all.
However no one will cure my sick head and bleeding heart. Is there anybody for it? To cure people out of love?

I hope you re right. Thanks

So in 4 days you've decided to not go ahead with any affair. But you don't believe in Divorce and your Husband can't have sex, doesn't want sex and in our opinion we've told you why and what you can do to change that.

Sorry Eliusa, when people change their mind so drastically what they are doing is agreeing with us so we go away.

As you can tell by the vote downs, no one believes you.

So I'm just going to say, every marriage gets caught out in an affair, you will be on your own, dis-owned. Best wishes in fulfilling your lust instead of re-building on love.

Amen Sister Soul.

Sister Soul. Now I like that

This one's expecially for you then....

I especially like Lil' Kim in this one.

Ferk I am going to be listening to that every day now, when I finish work lols, one of my favs

Thanks Chai, you're a legend just what I need to un-wind In lust hehe.

Ha on second thoughts I have to go find it on you-tube.

Note says - "Not up-loaded in your Country" bloody Australians

And I have music

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jgfT2ZPJRHM

Turns it up !!!!!!!!!

Maybe the OP can listen, read, learn and turn her hubby on

Hey Sister, Go Sister, Soul Sister, Go Sister
Hey Sister, Go Sister, Soul Sister, Go Sister
Hey Sister, Go Sister, Soul Sister, Go Sister
Hey Sister, Go Sister, Soul Sister, Go Sister

Do you fancy, ah, hitting the sack?
That's my kitty cat, is all that
And then son, you are the one
Gotta represent, gotta go the whole run

We can play all night, gotta do it right
Snuggle up, huddle up, nice and tight
My place or yours? Gotta be raw
Don't really matter once you get in the door

Coochi, coochi, yaya, dada
Coochi, coochi yaya, here
Mooka-chooka, latta, yaya

Where you think you're sleeping tonight? (oh)

Voulez-vous couchez avec moi ce soir?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?

Now come on and share all your deep fantasies
I'm asking not telling you please
show me all night, you can do me right
Take me where I wanna be and I'll be singing

Coochi, coochi, yaya, dada
Coochi, coochi yaya, here
Mooka-chooka, latta, yaya

Where you think you're sleeping tonight? (oh)

Voulez-vous couchez avec moi ce soir?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?

Hey Sister, Go Sister, Soul Sister, Go Sister
Hey Sister, Go Sister, Soul Sister, Go Sister
Hey Sister, Go Sister, Soul Sister, Go Sister
Hey Sister, Go Sister, Soul Sister, Go Sister

Mooka-chooka, latta, yaya
Couchez ce soir?
Wrong, wrong, that's right
Bring it in, Daddy, its the bedroom fight

Gonna head for your doors, and put 'em off fast
Gonna keep up if you think you can last
Gotta get wet, are you ready yet?
On your mark, get set

Voulez-vous couchez avec moi ce soir?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?

Voulez-vous couchez avec moi ce soir?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi? (avec moi, avec moi)

Voulez-vous couchez avec moi ce soir?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?
Voulez-vous couchez avec moi?

Where you think you're sleeping tonight? (oh)

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?
(Hey sister, soul sister, hey sister, go sister) [Shaz, Nat & Nic]
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
(Hey sister, soul sister, hey sister, go sister) [Shaz, Nat & Nic]
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
(Hey sister, soul sister, hey sister, go sister) [Shaz, Nat & Nic]
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
(Hey sister, soul sister, hey sister, go sister) [Shaz, Nat & Nic] [Fade]
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?
Oh
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?

OMG that was the dirty version LMAO


Not sure if the OP needed that one

"Lady Marmalade"
(feat. Mya, Pink, Lil' Kim, Missy Elliott)


[Lil’ kim:]
Where’s all mah soul sistas
Lemme hear ya’ll flow sistas

[Mya:]
Hey sista, go sista, soul sista, flow sista
Hey sista, go sista, soul sista, go sista

[Mya:]
He met Marmalade down IN old Moulin Rouge
Struttin’ her stuff on the street
She said, "Hello, hey Jo, you wanna give it a go?" Oh! uh huh

[Chorus:]
Giuchie, Giuchie, ya ya dada (Hey hey hey)
Giuchie, Giuchie, ya ya here (here)
Mocha Chocalata ya ya (oh yea)
Creole lady Marmalade

[Lil’ Kim:]
What What, What what
[Mya:]
ooh oh

Voulez vous coucher avec moi ce soir
Voulez vous coucher avec moi

[Lil’ Kim:]
yea yea yea yea

[Pink:]
He sat in her boudoir while she freshened up
Boy drank all that Magnolia wine
On her black satin sheets is where he started to freak
yeah

[Chorus:]
Giuchie, Giuchie, ya ya dada (da-da-da)
Giuchie, Giuchie, ya ya here (here ohooh yea yeah)
Mocha Choca lata ya ya (yea)
Creole lady Marmalade

Voulez vous coucher avec moi ce soir (ce soir, what what what)
Voulez vous coucher avec moi

[Lil’ Kim:]
yea yea uh
He come through with the money in the garter belts
I let him know we bout that cake straight up the gate uh
We independent women, some mistake us for whores
I'm sayin‘, why spend mine when I can spend yours
Disagree? Well that's you and I’m sorry
Imma keep playing these cats out like Atari
wearing high heel shoes, getting love from the dudes
4 bad ass chicks from the Moulin Rouge
hey sistas, soul sistas, betta get that dough sistas
We drink wine with diamonds in the glass
by the case the meaning of expensive taste
if you wanna Giuchie, Giuchie, ya ya
Mocha Chocalate-a what?
Creole Lady Marmalade
One more time C’mon now

Marmalade... Lady Marmalade... Marmalade...

[Christina:]
hey Hey Hey!
Touch of her skin feeling silky smooth
color of cafe au lait alright
Made the savage beast inside roar until he cried,
More-more-more

[Pink:]
Now he's back home doin' 9 to 5

[Mya:]
Sleepin' the grey flannel life
[Christina:]
But when he turns off to sleep memories creep,
More-more-more

[Chorus:]
Giuchie, Giuchie, ya ya dada (da daeaea yea)
Giuchie, Giuchie, ya ya here (ooh)
Mocha Choca lata ya ya (yea)
Creole lady Marmalade

Voulez vous coucher avec moi ce soir (ce soir)
Voulez vous coucher avec moi (all my sistas yea)
Voulez vous coucher avec moi ce soir (ce soir)
Voulez vous coucher avec moi (C‘Mon! uh)

[Missy:]
Christina...(oh Leaeaa Oh)
Pink... (Lady Marmalade)
Lil’ Kim...(hey Hey! uh uh uh uh...)
Mya...(Oh Oh oooo)
Rockwilder baby...(baby)
Moulin Rouge... (0h)
Misdemeanor here...

Creole Lady Marmalade Yes-ah......

I haven't changed my mind. It is still hurt like hell. I am just trying not to text, I mean not trying, I am not texting, not talking. And going out of my mind because eventually we going to have to meet for business purposes.
And I do not give a damn if you trust me. I am here to tell someone, anyone, no one. I don't care!!!
And why are you using 'we' when talking is YOU only?
Have anyone sent you a private message because they can't tell me they don't trust me? We my ass!

And I had not changed my mind in 4 days. I came here after months of suffering. It had been exhausting my health for weeks. I am just feeling that I can't go forward with what I thought I could. I am more afraid than horny.
There. Keep insulting me. I am not really sensitive to internet forums crap!

Jesus Eliusa

Lighten up already.

We're all so over all this. Once the sexy music videos start and we're jokin' and laughin, we've moved on. I doubt you or anyone is going to bring anything new to the table.

Now turn up the volume on Lady Marmalade and get some joy goin.


You're a grown woman, figure it out. Relax.