@izzythepush,
wmwcjr wrote: Have you ever noticed that more than a few "progressives,"
who have supported the gay rights movement for decades,
often try to insult those with whom they disagree of engaging in homosexual acts?
izzythepush wrote:It's because they're not progressive at all, they're just bigots.
Does that mean that thay
progress toward having strong opinions ?
izzythepush wrote:It's also symptomatic of 40 year old virgin syndrome.
I may be a friendless, charmless, late middle-aged virgin
who still lives with his mum, but at least I'm not a queer.
FOR THE RECORD:
Candor moves me against obscuring in disingenuous silence
the fact that I 'd
not have turned my back on
my mother
and abandoned her in any spirit of independence. Both as an adult
and as a kid, I had all the freedom I cud desire without interference
(tho I did
receive GOOD ADVICE from her).
Its been over 4O years since I lost my mom. I valued her.
My uncle, her elder brother, was of a different turn of mind.
He was born in 19OO. At age 12, he had a dispute qua proper
English table manners with his father, my English grandfather
from a place called: "Devon Shire", England, as a result whereof,
he became
abruptly homeless; however, he had been born in NY,
during a year-long honeymoon; hence, by operation of law,
he was a natural born American citizen. He told me that he
boarded a ship and came to America. (Fortunately for both of us,
he did
not elect to use the Titanic.) Starting from nothing,
by his own deft financial prowess, he became very wealthy.
About 15 years later the rest of the family, including my mom,
followed him to NY. Therefore, I became a natural born American citizen.
I owe that to his (
anti-authoritarian) standing up for his beliefs.
After my family arrived in NY, he
agreed to allow his widowed mom
to live with him, instead of with his semi-defenestrated sister,
whose husband did not fully welcome her.
Accordingly, she was elated, euphoric n exultant.
Dishonoring his word, he did not allow his mother, my elderly grandmother,
to move in with him; she was broken-hearted and died of a heart attack.
Some years later, I asked him about that; he said something about
(approximately) wanting more residential independence.
I was polite, but I thawt
less of him for doing that; ignoble.
I supported my mom, who was crippled at age 9 as the result of
her successful defense of her sister,
counter-attacking a violent predator
who was defenestrating my aunt.
Anyway, I felt a moral imperative to speak up against abandonment
of one 's mom. Most of the time, she deserves better than that.
David