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How to get married man out my head

 
 
Martie
 
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Reply Wed 20 Aug, 2014 12:57 am
@SofiaMia12,
Thank you. Your words are very encouraging. I am finding it very hard just now. I have no wish to rekindle the affair. I know it sounds crazy but he did feel like my soulmate and it's the loss of that - that is the most difficult to deal with.

I know that is probably what everyone says in these situations! I am looking forward to getting out the other end. I am glad you have found peace and are stronger for your experience.
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marysan
 
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Reply Sun 31 Aug, 2014 07:14 pm
@SofiaMia12,
Hi sorry to hear about your problems but they could be a darn site worse. You could like me end up with no man in your life. Trust me when I say if you could have seen yhe awful trauma me n my kids were caused just because some woman decided to help herself to a married man. I almost lost my life on several occasions..I became very mentally ill which still gives me problems to date..its affected a hell of a lot. If yoi can, try to appreciate your husband who I really feel sadfor..you dont know ehat youve got..I was a model wife..couldnt get better and Iim not being big headed Im being truthful...and then I look at other married women and some who treat their husbands appalingly always seem to get treated well by their husbands...its so unfair..in time you will forget thus other man and you will probably get the guilty feelings which not being harsh but I hope you do.
Germlat
 
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Reply Mon 1 Sep, 2014 01:50 am
@marysan,
A person's life doesn't begin or end with a man or a woman. I've known people who are completely satisfied and no longer desire a mate.
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FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Mon 1 Sep, 2014 03:04 am
@marysan,
This is sad marysan that it has effected you so much that you became ill and are still searching the Internet for situations that women put themselves into, with married men. Yet, you have compassion. But making that last statement.

Your life is important so I'm pleased that you realised that. Life is un-fair but then sometimes, we play the "model" person and the other person takes advantage of it. Perhaps you married the wrong man but you don't have to be on your own, not every "person" is the same in this World.

We learn to love ourselves and trust our future judgement. Don't spend your life on your own and scrawl the Internet over your past situation, it's time to live isn't it?
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Eliusa
 
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Reply Mon 1 Sep, 2014 08:38 am
@marysan,
I supposed that woman was approached first by your husband.
She didn't help herself, she agreed to the terms. Not saying she should had done so but those dogs sometimes messing with our heads so well.

Hope you got out of it and very well now.
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eleezbet
 
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Reply Thu 4 Sep, 2014 07:00 am
you might wanna yourself that you still love your husband so think back to when your still try explaining to your ex's wife that you just wanna know if they still friends
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AndreaRossi
 
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Reply Thu 17 Aug, 2017 02:40 am
@SofiaMia12,
Hi, I think you are perfectly right.
have a look also at this post and let me know what do you think about it,
thanks and good luck
https://able2know.org/topic/406556-1#post-6485432
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