@spendius,
Quote:The unborn kid has no defenders eh? It's a clump of cells.
She should have thought about all that before she allowed somebody who doesn't give a damn about her to shag her gratuitously. She didn't suddenly become not ready to have a child, and suddenly unable to afford it and suddenly realised it is a crazy world at the moment she knew she was pregnant. That would be stretching credulity further than it is usually stretched.
An embryo or a partially developed fetus is not "an unborn kid". And yes, it is "a clump of cells" that are a living organism, but it is not yet a developed human being, and to think of it as the equivalent of a fully developed human being, is to impose fantasy, or religious dogma, on reality. And while that fetus is inadequately developed enough to exist outside of utero, by any means, it remains a part of another's body and not a legally independent "human life" of any sort.
Whether pregnancy termination results from a spontaneous abortion, i.e. a miscarriage, or a medical procedure, it is the interruption of a biological process that prevents the development of a human being. Contraception does that prior to conception, abortion does it afterward.
What we are really discussing is the issue of a woman's legal reproductive rights--her legal right to control the reproductive capacity of her own body. And those rights would, and should, include access to both contraception and abortion. Just as men have access to both methods of contraception, as well as medical procedures, such as vasectomies, which allows them to exercise control over their reproductive abilities.
Those who believe that a human being is created at the moment of conception obviously do not share this view. I believe that such people are choosing to substitute religious dogma, or fantasies regarding some future potential, for the actual biological reality of the state of fetal development that is being interrupted with an abortion. They are entitled to hold these views, and to use them to guide their own choices about abortion. What I do not think they are entitled to do is to legally impose their own moral views on this issue on others, and to legally prevent other people's access to abortion based on these views.
You are clearly being judgmental about a woman's sexual behaviors, and bringing in issues that I feel are really irrelevant to an abortion discussion, when you say, "She should have thought about all that before she allowed somebody who doesn't give a damn about her to shag her gratuitously." The circumstances under which a woman became pregnant, or her particular reasons for seeking an abortion, are irrelevant to whether a medical abortion should be an available legal option for those who wish to terminate a pregnancy. Your thinking on this issue is incredibly narrow, as well as narrow-minded.
I don't wonder that you, personally, never hear people discussing whether or not they have had an abortion, or even considered one, given your extremely negative views of both the kind of "sexually loose" woman who gets herself in the circumstance of needing an abortion, as well as your negative and judgmental views of the procedure itself, although these methods include non-surgical procedures, as well as an Abortion Pill which will induce a miscarriage in the first 5-9 weeks of pregnancy. Who on earth would want to discuss her abortion with
you given your attitudes?
I've already said I've known women, both single and married women, who've had abortions, so women obviously do discuss such things with close friends, or relatives, or partners--with people they trust. It's not a subject that's likely going to be part of a revelation in a casual conversation with someone you don't really know or know well. For one thing, it's a very personal, and emotionally laden topic. You don't hear many women casually discussing the clinical details of their mastectomies, or what their bodies look like after radical mastectomies either, or men casually discussing their impotence after prostate surgery either--there are many things people consider personal, or emotionally difficult to talk about.
And you are also failing to look at the wide range of reasons that women seek abortions for unwanted pregnancies, even beyond instances of rape. Knowledge that she is carrying a fetus with a severe genetic disorder, such as Tay-Sachs disease, or a fetus with a profound birth defect, might be among those reasons. The serious physical risks of pregnancy--severe hypertension, diabetes, eclampsia--particularly for a woman who has had such medical problems during previous pregnancies, or for an older woman who has become pregnant toward the end of her reproductive years, might be another reason to choose the option of abortion. And selective abortion, to prevent too many multiple births, and to increase the viability of the remaining fetuses, can be a routine procedure when pregnancy results from in vitro fertilization, where multiple fertilized eggs are implanted in order to increase the probability of a successful pregnancy.
To focus on women's sexual behaviors--and any other factors prior to conception--or which are related to how conception occurred--are not really relevant to a discussion of abortion, particularly to a discussion of whether abortion should be legal. Either abortion should be a legal
medical procedure or it should not. I think those who oppose abortion, but will legally allow it only in exceptional cases--rape, incest, where the life of the mother might be in jeopardy--are unduly limiting choice in the matter. I support a woman's legal right to choose to abort, regardless of her reasons for doing so.
The issue is choice vs anti-choice in the matter of a woman's reproductive rights, and her legal right to seek medical procedures and treatments that allow her to maintain control over her body's reproductive abilities. How she conceived, or why she chooses abortion, is a personal matter that is no one else's business--let alone the business of the state.
So you are more than free to voice your opinions on this issue, as is everyone else. I'm only concerned with these "pro-life" opinions when they translate into legislation that imposes mainly religious views and prohibitions on others who may, or may not, share these views. I am not trying to convince you to share my views on whether or not a fetus is a human being, we will likely never agree on that matter. Similarly, I don't want you to legally impose your views on anyone else. The issue of legal choice relates to the choice of available reproductive options, and not to the forcing of beliefs and attitudes about terminating a pregnancy on others. Those who oppose abortion, are free not to have an abortion. But, those who wish to have an abortion, must also be allowed the legal freedom to make that choice. The issue is allowing
choice--legal choice.