@hawkeye10,
Quote:My wife was sexually abused for years by an older brother who later killed himself, my two girls were sexually abused by the brother of a babysitter whom we reported and helped to convict...
my focus is in ending the abuse and I am convinced that the way to get there is through freedom of erotic expression and the freedom of individuals to be sexual how ever they want with whom ever they want.
Do you think your wife's brother was simply exercising his "freedom to be sexual" with whomever he wanted when he abused his sister?
Was the babysitter's brother just expressing his "freedom to be sexual" with whomever he wanted when he abused your two daughters?
If so, you should have applauded these behaviors and not referred to them as "abuse". Why did you say your wife and daughters were "abused"?
You can't have the license for unrestrained "freedom of erotic expression" once it impinges on the rights or wishes of another person, or when it involves the exploitation or abuse of the vulnerable or powerless. People cannot be "sexual how ever they want with whom ever they want" without in the process trampling on or violating the rights of others, since not all people would be willing, or even "appropriate" partners. By eliminating the concept of abuse, by in effect making all forms of sexual behavior permissible, you don't stop others from feeling victimized, harmed, hurt, damaged, etc. by what might be done to them. You just don't want to have to be blamed, or punished, for what you've done to them.
This is just more of your bullshit. And you periodically trot out your wife's abuse, and your daughters' abuse, whenever you want to bolster
your alleged "credentials" as a sexual abuse expert, and it's rather sickening since it's never accompanied with any real understanding or sensitivity. It's in a class with your claiming to be " a follower of Zen" when you think it will lend you credibiity, even though nothing could be further from the truth. You are just a phony.
Your interest is in
your sexual needs and
your sexual desires, period. And you view any restraints or constraints put on
you by law as "sexual repression". You're a narcissist, it's all about
you at all times. Your capacity for empathy is nil. Your capacity for real understanding is nil--your perspective is so egocentric it's impossible for you to grasp anything that's beyond your own immediate self interest.
You've made it very clear you can't understand how children are harmed when they are sexually abused and exploited in child pornography, you think it's harmless when pedophiles possess and view such pornography, and I honestly think you don't really feel there is anything wrong with pedophilia, since you seem to think that normal children want to be sexually active, and you've said as much, by commenting, many times, that we are taking away children's sexual rights by not allowing them to sexually engage--including with adults.
And you apparently think it is normal for adults to be sexually aroused by children as well.
All of your bullshit on sexual issues boils down to the fact that your own sexual appetites are indiscriminate and desensitized, and society doesn't go along with allowing you completely free expression in satisfying yourself--at least not without some fear of sanction. Somehow you've latched on feminists to blame for this, although since it was the feminists who encouraged the sexual liberation of women, I think you've picked the wrong scapegoat. I don't think most people would support your notion of completely unfettered sexual expression, particularly if it disregards "consent" and particularly if it involves children, and your dismissal of such people, most people, as having swallowed "the feminist party line" simply shows how out of touch you are regarding normal emotions and values and normal views of healthy sexual expression. You really are a deviant, and deviants are not about to re-shape society's sexual mores in their own image. Considerably more than "the feminists" will keep that from happening.
You are not only not the "enlightened one" you are the small-minded fool. Arrogance and grandiosity do not substitute for wisdom or knowledge or human understanding. You are one of the most self-deluded individuals I've ever encountered. You really believe your own bullshit.