@Arella Mae,
Quote:Money is not my object here. Justice is.
Money and justice are not mutually exclusive. You are entitled to both.
You have been deprived of income, and you were subjected to significant emotional distress by their treatment of you, and you are entitled to monetary compensation for those things.
Justice in this instance is to make them answerable, accountable, responsible, for the way they have treated you. Whether that will have reverberations to produce change in how they treat others is not assured by this suit. But success on your part might well set a precedent that others could follow in pursuing their own claims.
I understand you want to address the larger picture of how this company allows many employees to be mistreated. Arella Mae, and you want the unfairness to be exposed and stopped. But your lawsuit is really about
you and there is nothing petty in keeping it about you and your grievances. This is your day in court, your chance to get justice. That you are standing up for yourself, and your entitlements, and your right not to be mistreated, is the wonderful part of this, and that's why it's worth pursuing and putting yourself through the stress of a legal action, AM. If more comes out of it, in terms of their company policy, or getting rid of those two women, that will be great, but don't be afraid to claim this as something you are doing for yourself, and your own sense of dignity, and your own need to feel vindication for injustices done to you. Those are fine motives, Arella Mae, don't try to disown them. You're putting your anger to good productive use--you're trying to right a wrong in an appropriate and legal way, and one way that's done in our system is with monetary awards as compensation. Money should be part of your thinking.
Either you want to pursue a lawsuit, or you want to handle the situation on your own--those two things I think are mutually exclusive.
You've already tried the latter, and it didn't work. If these people wanted to change, they wouldn't act the way they do. Even if your suit can't force them to change, it will certainly let them know that the way they act toward employees can have unpleasant legal consequences.
If Philippe doesn't want to know about anything negative, well, too bad, he
should know what goes on in a company he owns and how the employees of that company are treated. And a lawsuit will wake him up and get him to pay attention far more than any letter you could write to him, even with your audio tapes. If your goal is to make him more aware, than choose the most effective and powerful way to do that--let your lawyer and your lawsuit do your talking for you.
David mentioned a very good point, AM, if you sent a letter to that man, with or without your tapes, it could be misconstrued as a form of blackmail, and, in some ways it would be blackmail. Besides, any communication directly from you can also be regarded, by Philippe, as the expected actions and feelings of a disgruntled former employee who was fired, and the serious consideration you are seeking would never materialize, and you might only wind up damaging your legal case, and, since your law suit is really your best option for getting serious consideration of your views, you would be foolish to do that, or even risk it.
So I think you should avoid all communication, of any sort, with anyone at that company from now on. Let your lawyer handle all of it. That's his job.
Do you know when you might have a hearing with the EEOC?