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The kittens are coming!

 
 
dlowan
 
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Reply Sun 4 Dec, 2011 02:31 pm
@margo,
Hmmmm.....accidentally left the door to balcony open all night.

Woke at 6.00 am......no kittens. I assume they had been out there since the first touch of rosy fingered dawn. Both present and accounted for.


Anyhow.... The accident.

I was driving home friday night, peacefully minding my own business....when in front of me appeared a THING.

Normally I'm pretty good at noticing THINGS well in advance, but I only had a split second to think about this one, began to brake, unsure if I could actually do so in time, thought of the inevitable chain collision I was going to bear the brunt of, and, hoping it was a softish thing, (but aware belatedly from the looks of pedestrians who seemed to know what it was that I wasn't likely to be that luck) I drove over it.


Well...the horror! Sounds emanated from beneath my car as of a gigantic metal claw tearing its innards out. Surprised that the car still ran, I pulled off into a side lane and went back.

The guys who had been desperately trying to get it off the road told me that a bus on the other side of the road had hit the concrete median strip and the thing had torn off and landed on my side of the road. I assumed my car was ruined and, having no writing implements, dodged traffic to stand on median strip by said bus which was still sitting there, and knocked on window of drivers side, saying I would like to exchange names and numbers. I assumed he would open the door on the other side for me and we could do this civilly.

Instead he ignored me, while speaking into a phone. I was shocked by this, as I was by the fact that he made no move to get out and remove the thing his bus had left on the road. I found out later he'd sat there trapped in traffic for at least ten minutes, while several cars had hit the thing, while onlookers finally got the thing off the road.

I got angry and my requests became demands, while he sat there and ignored me. I discovered later he had done the same to at least one other driver.

He then drove off when the lights changed, leaving me balancinging precariously on a median strip narrower than the length of my shoe while six lanes of rush hour traffic roared past.

I was NOT amused.

I found that the guys who got the thing.....which turned out to be an O Bahn wheel (we have a kind of train track for buses that is used for a very long northern route, where they can travel very fast. It's concrete, and they can drop a set of wheels that slots into guides on this track....the thing was one of these wheels, with a a couple of feet at least of heavy metal attachment) had kindly taken all the bus details for me, so I was able to report to the Transit authority, my insurance and the police.

I was a bit shaken and VERY angry....angry not because of hitting something....accidents happen....but because of the attitude and negligence of the bus driver.

It's a weird accident because nobody seems entirely sure of whether the driver committed an offense or not. Two of the police I spoke to thought he had....that he had an obligation to try to remove the dangerous debris and exchange details with those who hit it, and one who thought he did not.

As far as I can see my car is ok....but I want it examined properly.

And I want the driver given a boot up the bum.


He was a Sikh.....I felt like grabbing his turban as he drove away. But that would be assault!
Roberta
 
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Reply Mon 5 Dec, 2011 01:30 am
Sorry you had such an upsetting and angrifying experience. Glad you're not hurt. Also glad your car is OK.

Da bum deserves at least a kick in the ass.

Glad the kitties didn't get carried away on the balcony.
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msolga
 
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Reply Mon 5 Dec, 2011 06:32 am
@dlowan,
Agh.
That's NOT what you needed on a Friday night driving home from work!

I had a very similar thing happen to me years ago, while driving to work on the freeway @ 110 kph. It was a horrible experience. This thing (which it later turned out to be a damn gearbox!) was right in my path & I had no choice but to drive over it. It was peak hour, extremely busy. So I know what you mean about the noise, Deb. Deafening. Unlike yours, my car was seriously damaged, including the steering which was kaput. I was just lucky that there was a short stretch of lane I could wobble my way into & get out of the traffic.

Make sure you get your car thoroughly checked out, Deb. (I know you will.) I couldn't believe how much damage that did. My car was off the road for ages.

And the nerve of the bus driver to not even acknowledge your presence! You poor thing! Too bad you didn't have a pencil on you so to record his number plate & make a report to the bus company.

Anyway, I hope today (Monday) was a much less eventful day for you.
Boring, even!

But anyway, onto more important things ... how are Viola & Sebastian & how are you, too, of course! Smile
dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 5 Dec, 2011 08:24 am
@msolga,
Oh...witnesses gave the details...reported to police, STA and insurance. The latter two were supposed to call back today but didn't.

Sorry to hear about you car.

Woollies and I are about to settle for sleep.



dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 5 Dec, 2011 03:47 pm
@dlowan,
Woollies had first go at their first game today.

Sebastian killed every bug in sight, turned ipad over to get at where they really were and turned the program off accidentally.

Viola watched intently for ages...gradually starting to softly touch and kill bugs playfully.
sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 5 Dec, 2011 03:51 pm
@dlowan,
Aww.

I like those Woollies, even though they're exasperating and occasionally dangerous.

How are you doing?
dlowan
 
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Reply Tue 6 Dec, 2011 02:06 am
@sozobe,
Niagara Falls........



I had INTAKE today.

I'm over it. I admit defeat. I can't do it any more.

After it I thought I needed a wee drinkie.....I made it to the bottle shop, even remembering to post the mail I needed to on the way.

I selected my cask of chardonnay....time was I could afford bottles even when it wasn't a party.....and made it to the register. Then my brain stopped working completely.


First, I asked for a pack of moustachio nuts.

Then I put the wrong card in the machine. Not realising this even after it was declined for wrong pin, I tried again.

Then I realised it was the wrong card, and put the right one in. Bad scan. I nearly sobbed. Salesperson pointed I put it in wrong way. Then I used the old PIN. Finally managed to buy the cask and the moustachio nuts.

headed the extremely small distance home.

Got lost. Woke up in wrong street. Managed to find right street.

Got home.


Aaaaaaahhhhhhh....the joy of the loving greeting from one's very own pussies.

Fed pussies.

Poured glass of wine.

Settled down by computer. Turned it on. Saw throttle notice from internet provider. Am throttled until midnight. Watch emails and Chrome load with infinitestimal slowness. See order confirmation from Amazon for a book that looks cool but I don't think I ordered. Still attempting to access Amazon on throttled speed.


Sebastian, my sweet little boy comes in....throws up dinner. ****.

Viola enters....commences eating Sebastian's thrown up dinner.

I can't look.

Sebastian joins her.

Reasons to be cheerful....no mess to clean up.

Sebastian now attempting to steal my wine.


Have not mentioned the hard parts of the day yet.

Kittens still cute and lovely to have around as long as you don't THINK.


Much less pain today.

World still sucks even when I am not in agony.

Damn.

dlowan
 
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Reply Tue 6 Dec, 2011 02:07 am
@dlowan,
Bet you're glad you asked.......
sozobe
 
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Reply Tue 6 Dec, 2011 08:47 am
@dlowan,
I am, actually.

Because now I can provide a tiny bit of sympathy for what sounds like a really bad day.

(Moustachio nuts? Are they green and fuzzy?)

What's the main problem for you right now, or do you know? Is it the after-effects of surgery, or meds, or just your body saying "ARGH I CAN'T TAKE IT I NEED TO SHUT DOWN FOR ABOUT A WEEK OKSEEYABYE"?
Roberta
 
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Reply Tue 6 Dec, 2011 09:04 am
Deb querida, I'm worried about you. What do you mean you woke up on the wrong street? Should you be out roaming around? OY.

Glad the felines are true to form.

Please take care of you.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Tue 6 Dec, 2011 09:40 am
@sozobe,
Actually, I was in less pain today than any day since surgery.

I think there were several things going on today.

It got off to a bad start because I found a senior I find very difficult to work with was on.

I discovered that my moving office day (before which I have to get my entire office packed into boxes....not the best time for me to do a lot of hard on the back work) which I had thought was a couple of weeks away is, in fact, Monday. I am fully booked all week....Friday is Christmas lunch etc, so my options are to come back late Friday and do the packing or come in over the weekend.

I think I'm just Intaked out. For a while I was very light on referrals and, knowing all the staff who do the forensic work were really struggling because we are in a staff shortage period big time, I just took on a lot of the intake times to free them up when they were desperate. This has meant that I've probably been doing three to four times the amount of intake days than normal, and I'm in a period where intakes I took on a while back are now interfering with the huge number of referrals I have just taken on....this was made worse because I was really sick, then had scheduled time off for hospital, so I have had to reschedule a lot of folk I was forced to cancel.

The pain and drugs have made me kind of slow to deal with this.

Anyway, intake just sucks.....it's an unceasing stream of stuff you justnhave to deal with....never really getting a chance to deal with anything before the next one hits. It sucks for everyone....we all feel like **** and look like ghosts and head for the alcohol after! It got quieter for a bit....now it's gone mad again....and having a senior you grate with just makes it harder.....for both of us.

Everyone was having a dummy spit day....it was kind of weird.
dlowan
 
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Reply Tue 6 Dec, 2011 09:52 am
@dlowan,
One of the things that makes us grate is that she is someone who comes in when you're desperately trying to complete an urgent task, and wants to question thevlast thing you did. That's fine....but I prefer to deal with what she wants when I've finished the other thing, and she finds that rude, I think....while I find her manner rude. She's aware that her Italian background makes her harsher, as she calls it, than is the Anglo norm.....not that she isn't a lovely person, but the rules of interaction are a bit different. When I'm stressed I subliminally react to that different affect as though it's anger or criticism, which I actually know it isn't, and I get a bit grumpy or terse in response. It's a bit of a burden for both of us on a long hard day.

I also like to stay back and finish everything I possibly can, and I think she feels a bit as though she should too....and gets a bit defensive. I don't think she should at all...but it means she's wanting to wind down and I'm still in total work zone, which means I'm asking her to sign off on things that I can get rid of and not leave for the next intake person, when she's mentally signed off.

That probably means a lot of seniors feel a bit pushed by me!
Anyhow....I don't think my zoning out after work was a sinister thing....my brain just needed a break.
sozobe
 
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Reply Tue 6 Dec, 2011 09:56 am
@dlowan,
That all makes a lot of sense. Sounds extremely stressful.

Meanwhile an office move really sounds like the very last thing you need right now. It's always something I guess but you've had a lot of something dumped on you lately.

Huggage....
Roberta
 
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Reply Tue 6 Dec, 2011 06:03 pm
@dlowan,
dlowan wrote:

I don't think my zoning out after work was a sinister thing....my brain just needed a break.


I'm gonna worry anyway.
margo
 
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Reply Tue 6 Dec, 2011 08:07 pm
sounds like an especially unattractive time all round!

Commiserations.
msolga
 
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Reply Tue 6 Dec, 2011 09:59 pm
@margo,
Yeah, from me, too, Deb.

Just too much on your plate while you're not feeling 100%.

Just as well the Terrible Two are such a delight & bring so much fun & joyful silliness into your life, hey? Very Happy
dlowan
 
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Reply Wed 7 Dec, 2011 12:21 am
@msolga,
Sebastian did a really smelly pooh last night.


On the plus side, he's biting less.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Wed 7 Dec, 2011 12:21 am
@sozobe,
Awww.......
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dlowan
 
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Reply Wed 7 Dec, 2011 12:22 am
@Roberta,
Roberta wrote:

dlowan wrote:

I don't think my zoning out after work was a sinister thing....my brain just needed a break.


I'm gonna worry anyway.


It may take your mind off some other worries? This could be good?

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dlowan
 
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Reply Wed 7 Dec, 2011 12:22 am
@margo,
margo wrote:

sounds like an especially unattractive time all round!

Commiserations.


You having a bad time too?
 

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