@margo,
Da bunny's not a wabbit! Fie on you, Margo. Double fie.
Deb's been under tremendous stress. Tremendous pressure. But she hasn't lost or bunnyhood, and she never will.
Thinking about you, Deb. Wish I could help. I'm stronger than I look. I'd carry a carton for you. Not a carton of books. Maybe tschotchkes. I have no idea how to spell that, but i'd carry it anyway.
Hang in. Sending helpful warm thoughts from halfway around the world.