@dlowan,
Yes, how
dare patiodog go AWAL!
I was treading carefully on the finances thing, Deb, because I know NO WAY would you scrimp on Miranda's legitimate health needs because of mere $$$$$ ...
It's just that, I wonder what these extra tests (& the extra $$$$) would actually achieve? Apart from making you poorer. And putting Miranda through unnecessary, possibly distressing, "treatment". (As if she hasn't had enough already.)
To me it's simple: if you & your vet know full well that a beloved pet is dying, then surely the focus would be on making what is left of the dear critter's life as pain-free & as pleasurable as possible, under the circumstances?
I recall when my much-loved Rats was declared to be "incurable" & dying.
My very down-to-earth vet told me that the drugs he was prescribing would simply improve Rats' quality of life for a short time, that this was all that could be done ... and that my role then, was to take him home & keep a very close watch on him. He (my vet) said I would know when it was "time", at the first signs of deterioration after the drugs.
My response was to pamper my critter, lots of attention & affection .. allowing some indulgences like some previously banned treats (which he really loved!) ... all the time watching him like a hawk for the inevitable signs.
Then, of course, to be there with him during his last vet visit.
What more can you do?