@firefly,
I don't think you do me justice with this quote--
Quote:I would go so far as saying that love is well nigh impossible for the rich and famous
and allowing yourself to omit that I allowed for occasional exceptions. I know that "well nigh" amounts to the same thing but it gives a much weaker impression. That's why I added the qualifier.
Now ff--these professional male athletes are not "extremely overpaid". They work in a market characterised by a ruthlessness that I hardly think I can imagine let alone those who know little or nothing about it. It is very close to losing your life so focussed is it. They are paid what we choose to pay them. Some might think it is a torture we inflict upon men whose upbringing, in the great majority of cases, has not prepared them for wealth. In the way of an entertainment now we are jaded with the semblances actors and actresses and scripwriters can make of it. We buy the depictions of real life acute stress under the law of Genetic Susceptibilty and consume them with our cornflakes, our tea-breaks, our luncheons, dinners, after-dinners, and on into the pubs, bars, clubs and anywhere else two or more people gather and find themselves with nothing to say. Similar occurences, of which there are a large number, at ordinary atmospheric pressures are boring. So, which fits neatly into my General Theory of Sport: they torture body and mind to get good enough for us to give them enough money for them to torture themselves in a new way so that either a good laugh is provided or opportunities to empathise convincingly with our own sex and thus our own interest even though it might be wholly imagined.
The market pays them and I think they give very good value. But not for them the joys of an allotment when they retire where their competitive streak can be diverted into growing champion marrows. There's the Senior's Tour and their Sponsors and their not knowing what else to do and ending up like Tom Watson having to be egged on past his obvious limits by his stubborn pride to the point of having to be almost carried through the last nine holes of an Open live on TV. At least he grinned sheepishly as he staggered off the last green to rapturous applause. The Dick van Dyke Show springs to mind.
Quote:These men, who earn fantastic sums, and who generally travel a lot, are constantly surrounded by women who throw themselves at them.
And no wonder. When they see what Elin has made out of it and that shameful hussy Vanessa-Perroncel who can blame them? We all know that the President of France is an exception in this regard as his personal magnetism is enough to stretch any woman's neck. One guy here totted up the cost of each connection with his ex-wife at £47,000. (About $70,000). We cannot know whether Elin came cheaper or not.
Quote:The more immature or self indulgent men are likely to get involved in multiple casual liaisons, and, if these men happen to be married, the results, as in Tiger Wood's case, and be scandalous and destructive.
They are likely to be immature and self-indulgent aren't they. It's a young man's world. A professional footballer here can lose himself and his team-mates and club millions of pounds with one error. Or win the same with one inspired moment or happy accident and not care which. They are not like us. And with women throwing themselves before them a long way from home we can be sure that it is either an irresistable temptation or that women are losing their grip. If drink is involved it doesn't even matter if the women are losing their grip. A woman I knew told me she could get any man she wanted. And I can well believe it.
Quote:Woods may simply have been doing what a lot of other male professional athletes also do, but he did it with a degree of recklessness that was almost self destructive.
To be quite frank ff, that's meaningless. You have a "may", " a lot" and an "almost". Tiger looks anything but self-destructive. Cowed is the word I would use. And not that much either. And the reckless male is the all-time American hero.
Quote:He chose women who were likely to expose him, and he gave them the ammunition to do it.
After being foolishly assured by each of them that they were not the sort who would stoop to such underhanded tricks.
But 15 does seem to be taking a chance too many I admit. Hence my theory that Elin had lost him and he sought a way of making the split and taking all the blame even at the risk of being bled white. A true gentleman.
Quote:It was a time bomb waiting to happen.
If I may use "may" as you did I may say that Tiger may have primed the bomb for the reason just given. In fact, if 15 is the number, then some of those "bimbos" (shame on you ff) must have kept the confidence or at least until one broke cover.
I'll stop now. The "apparently" has warned me off further comment.
But on "The man must be a fairly convincing liar" I refer you to Hamlet Act 3 Scene 1--
Hamlet to Ophelia--" What should such fellows as I do crawling between earth and heaven? We are arrant knaves, all; believe none of us. Go thy ways to a nunnery."