@OmSigDAVID,
I wouldn't have any problem at all with it if I knew that she'd asked or even told the young man that she was going to go into graphic detail as to his every small physical and emotional reaction to sexual stimulation with a bunch of strangers and made sure that he was okay with that.
But if she hasn't, I think that's an abuse of his trust in her. When you have sex with someone - or rather I'll just speak for myself here-when I have sex with someone, I don't expect and wouldn't appreciate that person getting up from the bed and going to the computer and giving a play-by-play to a bunch of strangers.
It's along the same lines of using discretion and maturity in real life. You don't expect the person to get up from the bed and go over to the pub and tell all his friends about it. Even if his friends don't know ME - it's still an abuse of my trust in his sense of maturity and discretion if he does that.
Maybe some people are okay with 'kiss and tell' and using the 'need' to ask questions or for advice as an excuse to make their sexual problems public. But what she needs to keep in mind is that when she makes her problems public - she's also graphically making her boyfriend's problems public.
But I know I'm probably in the minority here. People take and post pictures of their private business now - and make it public for everyone to see. That doesn't mean I don't still believe in appropriate sexual discretion. And I feel good about advocating that for young people.
Everything shouldn't be public. Some things retain more of their intrinsic value if/when they're kept private.
And it's not just sex - for instance- I wouldn't talk about my childrens' personal issues or problems on this forum with any amount of depth or detail without first asking them if they minded. I think that's just a matter of respect. And I can tell you that my children WOULD feel their privacy was invaded if I ever did- that's why I don't.