@gungasnake,
First of all, just because men are more conscious of their responsibilities today doesn't mean they are giving up on women. It's not a question of morals or even of "expenses;" they see that getting into a hetero relationship too deeply can mean a life of being tied down and fatherhood that they just might not be ready for. I'm gay myself, and yes it has its rewards - but I wouldn't say it's "simpler." I consider it a great gift, that god has given and blessed me with, but that's just how I see it. And yes I thank God that there's a lot more honestly out of the closet guys now - because that's a sign of a morally mature society. Not an immoral one - a moral one. Also give men some credit - we do value women even if we don't necessarily get busy with them (I'm one who swings both ways) - it's a new world, a new social order, and men are just starting to get their footing in it.