@questionableasker,
questionableasker wrote:
After about an ENTIRE HOUR he still hadn't come. The reaction lasted the entire time, and it was very...much like a seizure, except there was no release. Of anything. Not semen..not even tension. He described one part of it as a tickling sensation. He says that he hasn't ever experienced that kind of sensation (meaning the entire sensation of the whole hour, not just the tickling.) He has masturbated before, but not much, and he doesn't "jack off." He rubs the base of the penis. Apparently that causes him to "come" as far as he can tell, but it's always just enough to run down his leg a little, and he's not actually ever sure if he's ever really come.
What the heck. Please help. Am I terrible at everything in that I've never been able to get him to come, or do you think that my playful yelling may have caused him so much stress that he couldn't come? Could he have been having orgasms all those times he masturbated, but... just hadn't ever had an orgasm quite as strong as the one I gave him? Is the tickling sensation normal? Could I maybe just have stopped too soon? I mean, I kept on for like an hour, but with the giggling and the embarrassment/fear, maybe I needed to wait until he got comfortable? Also, do you think that maybe he has been having what is called "retrograde ejaculation" ?
PLEASE help. I'm very confused, and so is he.
No, you are not terrible at anything at all. You are a young lady virgin who is trying to make her virgin boyfriend feel good. But, dear young lady, you do not need ever to carry on a BJ for an hour. An hour? I simply do not believe that! He is probably too green, naive, or dumb and knows less than you do, or doesn't want to hurt your feelings so says nothing.
You don't owe this guy a BJ. And, I don't believe you two are in your twenties.
