@Volunteer,
"If someone claims to speak for you, you can be silent and accept what they say or you can refute their speech. Remaining silent implies consent. Speaking out against someone's speech who claims to speak for you allows you to be truthful when claiming they don't speak for you. While your points have validity, the silence also speaks."
It's hard to figure out what you're saying. Are you claiming that the Palestinians don't speak out against the extremists? If that's your argument, this is my response.
1) There are some Palestinians, and some Muslims, who do speak out against it. What makes you think there aren't?
2) Just because a person doesn't speak out against something doesn't mean they agree with it. They might think their opinion won't change anything. Or they might speak out against something a bunch of times, but then get tired of it falling on deaf ears.
3) It's true that Palestinians and Muslims are fixated on what Israeli does wrong, and they don't pay enough attention to their own wrongdoings. But guess what? The same is true in reverse. In fact, you epitomize this perfectly- an American Christian or Jew who's fixated on what the Palestinians do wrong, but who ignores Israeli wrongdoings. Nothing's more ironic than someone like you criticizing Muslims for not paying attention to the splinter in their eye.
4) A majority of Palestinians support suicide bombings. However, an overwhelming majority also support an end to suicide bombings if a fair peace deal is negotiated. So, simply telling them not to be violent has no chance of working. But a peace deal that addresses both sides' legitimate grievances does. And i think the same is probably true in reverse. Most Israelis would probably be willing to make concessions if they thought it would end the terrorism.
Yet, you portray the situation as if your side is right and the other side is wrong, and the other side isn't willing to make any concessions. You portray it as if it's black and white, but all i've seen you base these beliefs on are generalizations, simplifications, and bias. Thus, I think you're probably just a cheerleader for the side you relate to the most (which in this case happens to be the modern, Democratic Judeo Christian side).
People like you are a hindrance to peace. I approach the issue as a pragmatist; not as a cheerleader.