no no, S-boy talks to him on the phone
i'm quite good at not answering the phone (as some here know, I can switch off easily when I don't want to talk).... and email i should just not respond to, but I have no self restraint on opening email... I have to look!!!
thing is, we've been friends for 22 years - we've had the odd blip during the divorce, but even after separating, we had good reasons to do that, we didn't fall out really. We have a young fella who needs to see his parents communicating and getting on - ya know - being adults (ack... stamps feet)
and we do, get on, most of the time, we were sat in the car together going to S-boy's school on Monday - he comes in the house to pick up S-boy - tells me all about his new dog and cats and job and blah blah blah... it usually just goes straight over the top of my head or I have a wee rant to myself after he's gone
I dunno - his financial struggles are not my problem years down the line - and he is being a complete tosser and I am so mad with what's he said to me
but i won't change my number or email just because of him
if we fall out about something, i usually put my fingers in my ears and lalalalalalllalllala... and the moment passes...
he pushed the wrong button yesterday and today - he actually made me spit venom - and I can spit it well unfortunately when needs be - terrible. Fortunately, I still haven't sent the email to him - poor JPB wasn't so fortunate - it's sitting in her emai box
sorry JPB - please delete - just had the urge to push the send button ....
I have a lot of things I want to say to him - but maybe I should wait for the agreement to be settled and then... say my bit and move on... again.
i don't get upset too often - I sing too much for that - he's totally shocked me by what he's said and how he's behaved.... so out of character
maybe something is going on his life - I dunno. I would rather get the agreement signed and back with my lawyer, then... get a new set drawn up - I can give a little because I don't need much, I just need to know I have enough for the kids in the future because my health dictates my earning capacity - I don't want one of his pensions for a few pounds a year at age 65, he can keep that and the others, he's got all the shares, but I have a house. I reckon that's fair. I don't need maintenance. I need the child support - that's it.
I guess I am just real disappointed that he would do this and make it somehow my responsibility. JERK. Shouldn't have let him get to me. Thought I was done with those feelings.