@eoe,
Quote:What was she saying about the mother? Does she have an issue with the mother? I'm just curious.
Well, she did have what she thought were issues. I remember the woman asking me why I'd let my son play with this little boy, given who his mother was and where he lived.
I told her he was a nice, quiet polite little boy who I was happy to have my son have as a friend and asked her what she was talking about. She said, 'He lives in that old falling down apartment house - have you seen it?'
I told her I had. She said, 'You don't let your kids go over there to play do you?'
I said, 'Yes, why not?'
She said, 'You can tell those people are dirty and you don't know who else lives there.'
I said, 'Yes, I do know who lives there. I don't let my kids go to anyone's house without me seeing where they live and meeting the parents and this woman is a nice person and her apartment is fine - in fact, it's immaculate. She's very clean'.
The she said, 'She obviously doesn't work though.'
I said, 'She works at home - her daughter is only just five - she does sewing for people - she made my slipcovers for my couch - that's how I met her.'
Then believe it or not - she made some reference to the Donna's mode of dress - that she always looked sexy or something...I guess she thought this woman was out to steal everyone's husband or something.
At that point, I just laughed and said, 'She's got a great figure...she's gonna look good in whatever she wears.' (Which was true).
The point is - this woman didn't even know Donna- she'd never even spoken to her and she was making assumptions that weren't true (Donna had two kids by the same father , a man she had married who happened to be an abusive alcoholic, she'd divorced him- she was hardworking, clean and creative and as soon as her daughter started school full time she started working full time and moved into her own place- not subsidized)- but it was easier for her to believe that Donna was a lazy little harlot and that her son was deserving of second-class treatment based on who she thought his mother was and where they lived.
Same sort of stuff that's attributed to people of certain races all the time - perpetuating racism.
Quote:What issues do you have with the current proposed health plan? Again, just curious.
As presented, it sounds like a business model that CANNOT work. I admit, I don't know all the ins and outs of the insurance business, but I am disappointed that it's being presented as more of a revision of the insurance industry and/or method of payment for services rendered instead of a revision of the presentation and manifestation of a service-based industry- which health care is (to me) just as surely as education is (to me) -a RIGHT that all citizens should have equal access to regardless of their ability to participate in a for-profit business scheme.
As it's being presented - I don't know how anyone expects anyone to want to be IN the insurance business. Who the hell can be expected to WANT to provide insurance for people who have a pre-existing and devastatingly expensive terminal illness? Why would anyone? How stupid would they be?
Because I mean, basically you'd then just be paying their medical bills- handing them over the money they need to pay for everything. That's not what insurance is.
But, if health care were looked at like a service industry - like education or social work- and the providers were in those jobs because they cared about their patients and had an interest in providing that specific service to fellow citizens - there'd be more and better care provided to a larger percentage of citizens at lower cost.
It's a mindset. And I don't know that the majority of Americans have that mindset when it comes to health care. It reminds me of a situation my daughter was talking about that they discussed in her philosophy class the other day. If you're on a lifeboat and it's sinking because of the weak and wounded - would you throw those people overboard?
Maybe Americans don't want to have to worry about anyone but themselves.
Maybe Obama (through no fault of his own) is fighting a losing battle - trying to convince Americans they can have what they've always had without giving anything up- because the majority who have what they want are not WILLING to give anything up so others can have even a little something.