Brandon9000 wrote:It may not be what you want to hear, but my experience is that you cannot fix or handle a boss like this. I've tried more than once. The only thing that seems to work is to go elsewhere. Sorry.
I agree to a certain extent. You cannot change some one else. What you have to do is to change how you deal with this person. It does seem to me that whatever you do will not be good enough, right or anything - he is using you as a dumping ground pretty much.
If you want to stay at this job, the only way I can see to make it more pleasant for you is to try to let him get to you. Pretty much realize he is going to be an a$$ and don't take anything personally - ignore his comments - I'm not saying this will be easy, but if you realize he is only dumping on you because he is miserable with the situation, it may be easier to just ignore his comments.
Some other ways to make you feel better during the work day - take a walk to clear your head. Call a friend and vent (as long as boss can't hear you), treat yourself ore reward yourself for dealing with this a$$.