I'd just say, walk, and then walk some more.
But I know that's not easy.
I am very sorry to hear that, oxynelle. Perhaps - once it penetrates (no pun intended
) his scull - he'll reconsider his moves and actions. I sure hope so for your sake.
Men are stupid when it comes to sex.
Their brains dont function properly on an intellectual level especialy when aroused.
I know this is true.
Tell him again.
ossobuco wrote:I guess I'm plotzed that someone would tell you to pack your bag. Maybe you should, but we don't know that yet.
And maybe you could do it as a vacation, but why go to Hilo, given you are in Florida?
Hey, be calm.
Who told her to pack a bag? Sglass was talking about a vacation, not leaving him.
sheesh.
I'm still trying to figure out how people can have sex without making any noise.
I'm DYING to know what it is he won't do.
Or, is he just not doing it WELL?
I wonder if other members might give me an idea of how prevalent this quiet sex is. Do many of you not talk or make noise during sex? Are the noisies the minority--or the quiets---and is the minority an extreme or slight?
(feels a poll coming on)
Eh, well, pardon meeeee, it sure sounded like leave it all and go to Hawaii. Whatever the advice was, dealing with the situation at hand seems good to me, argue if you like.
Not that I have any bright ideas re the situation at hand. I'll leave that to the couple...
I knew I had a sympatica around here somewhere...LOL
Ony, I'm so sorry. This really sucks and I wish I had some advice for you, but I still haven't figured men out yet myself.
(((((Ony)))))
Oh, and sheesh yourself, Mame.
naughty, naughty girls...
<giggles>
I actually TRIED to be quiet during sex. Impossible. It's not sex for me if I have to control anything...(that sounds funny)
It has to be reckless abandon or I may as well be doing laundry...
Trying to be quiet is fun, once or twice. Surely not as a routine. But, folks, that was NOT the question.
...it led to my question.
Lash wrote:naughty, naughty girls...
<giggles>
I actually TRIED to be quiet during sex. Impossible. It's not sex for me if I have to control anything...(that sounds funny)
It has to be reckless abandon or I may as well be doing laundry...
Exactly! I don't think I am able to be quiet. Believe me, I've tried and I can't do it
We care about Onyx's question, do we not? Or is this thread all over the place?
Ony, maybe he's feeling a little embarrased from hearing that he isn't satisfying you and may be why he's being this way about it right now. Once he's had time to think about it, he just may come around and rock your world once again.
I wish you only the very best and I'm sorry about the jokes. I hope I didn't offend you.
((((((((more hugs)))))))
I don't think of onyx's question as light, although treating it lightly within the marriage may work - alas, that's not me. But it might work for Onyx.
