I haven't come to a decision yet. I didn't want anyone to come and disagree to my post... I wanted opinions, not judgement, as whoever it was said. But here I am, ALL of you telling me that I'm doing this to satisfy some kind of self-image problem or need of attention or some such ****.
Have you tried all the cool vibrators and toys yet?
Yeah, I'm not so much of vibrator person myself, and I have a very nice glass dildo that I'm quite happy with thanks. This is a completely different thing, it's not sexual satisfaction as such (though part of the pros of getting it would amount to this) it's getting something DIFFERENT.
do it. its hot. its like an extra thing to play with.
Actually Chai, I was very angry that you're all judging me and bringing up a slightly sarcastic point that it might suit me to have a decrease in sensation after a period of time.
As I say, I haven't made a decision yet. I was just wondering what y'all thought on them, but frankly it seems I've attracted only those more 'mature' individuals who want to tell me I'm a silly little girl with this thread.
I haven't contradicted myself in the slightest. I may have brought up several arguements as to why I'd get the piercing done, then others as to why I might not. That is because I'm still making a decision. I didn't come on here to go "Hey! Shall I get this piercing? I know I already want to...and I'm going to despite what you have to say."
go all the way, get a BIG piercing and put in The Club. One of these days you'll be getting married and you'll be prepared for when you lock that pu**y up
What in the name of all....??
Oh I'd love to get caught by someone at an airport metal detector for that... What a thrill.. No seriously, the idea actually turns me on.
God....That would remind me of female circumsion. You know, mutilating a woman's genitals?
OK, this just seems over the top to me....
A woman, deciding of her own volition, to have an ornament placed on her genitals, in the hopes of hightened sexual pleasure, reminds you of a woman forced, against her will, to have the clitoris removed, in order to control her sexual activity and sexual pleasure?
Thank you. I seriously think a load of you are going WAY over the top with this. Have any of YOU actually got this piercing? I'd much prefer people who are going to offer calm words of advice and opinion plus those who HAVE the piercings to reply. Most of you seem like you've got very strong opinions on young people of my age group/sex already, which seems to be making you categorise me and judge me.
Like I'm some immature girly that goes around wearing incredibly short skirts and flaunting myself for attention. You don't know me. I'm not asking for an opinion on my personality, I'm asking for FACTS and OPINIONs on the PIERCING. Not ME getting it. The actual piercing and whether GENERALLY you think it's hot etc.
Do a load of YOU want to go back and read YOUR posts and see how OTT you have been and how inappropriately judgemental?
This whole thread, from being a calm, indifferent enquiry as to your opinions on an idea, has upset me. From the way you suggested I have problems with my self image to the way you honestly assumed I'd get this done to impress someone else!!!
Oh they're self cleaning alright. It's your body's natural way to keep infections at bay. If I remember rightly, we haven't always had nice fragrant soaps to keep our fannies clean.
Ummm, also a point. Seen as the belly button is more likely to get a really bad infection, that can damage your reproductive organs...generally it's higher risk of damaging the bits you need inside with a belly button piercing...
you have a boyfriend, but have not mentioned this to him, but you speak in great detail about it here with people you don't even know. You ask us if we think it's sexy, and we've said no. But you haven't asked the bf apparantly.
I have now. I let ideas bubble in my head for a while, ask what people who I don't know personally think (with the hope they won't take my personality into count
) and then pass it on if I'm still interested.
I hadn't seen the boyfriend for a while, nor had much time to talk about this topic, since I wanted to talk face to face, but now I have and he's okay about it, but not sure. I'm going to show him some piccies etc to see what else he says, because I'm still interested in getting it. Maybe not imminently, but soon.
I don't believe people just tell private stuff on line, but don't tell anyone else ever in real life.
All my friends are guys. If I were to discuss matters such as this with them it would probably be taken as getting a bit too intimate with them. Online I can chat to people openly without them judging me (you would've thought) since they don't know my personality already, they have no emotional attachment and there are more likely to be people with the experience I need to find out more from people's personal opinions and first hand experiences. I have no-one IRL that has this experience, and hoped there'd be people out there who did and could offer useful information.
We've told you what we think, you don't agree.
WE? I'm afraid you can't speak for everyone on here, as proven by the few replies from people who have given me support or at least helpful opinions. I don't mean to start a long-lasting arguement and I'm not making a personal dig, but seriously, you seem to think that you have such a strong opinion on this that everyone is following. I'm certain I'll get some disagreement on that point, but that's how it seems to me. YOU'VE been the only one seriously making personal attacks on me and I don't see why that's necessary. It hasn't helped me make a decision, if anything it's upset me.
I'v probably missed something, I'm in a bit of a rush now. But I really don't understand why you've had to get so personal when I was just looking for some first hand advice and opinions.