Miller wrote:
Secondly, many parents leave their kids at home alone, while they go to work, to the store, to the gym, to visit friends, to do the wash at the laundry on the corner...
Plenty of people leave their kids at home alone for 2-6 hours, and nothing happens and no "officials" come knocking on the door to snatch the kids.
And, having grown up on the SouthSide of Chicago, I can say that the Chicago police have far to much to do, without having to track down
"home-alone" kids...This is I know as a FACT...
Well, I don't know what Twilight Zone you're living in, but leaving 2 and year olds home alone for any length of time whatsoever (never mind 2 - 6 hours!!!!!!!!) is immediate grounds for a check from the Children's Aid Society, at the very least, and apprehension and court in the normal scheme of things.
And I can't believe you are so blase about people leaving little ones alone while they "go to work, to the store, to the gym, to visit friends, to do the wash at the laundry on the corner." There is absolutely no excuse for leaving such young kids home alone. It's reprehensible.
This situation may be different in that the apartment was close to their table (wasn't it? - I can't remember what the distances were). I don't approve of their leaving them in any case, but perhaps if they were close and they made frequent checks, it could not be considered the same as "going to work or to the gym...) - that is totally negligent and unforgivable behaviour.
They should have foregone their dinner, in my opinion. Aren't their kids worth more than that? They could have had room service or ordered take out.
There were other options, and look at the mess their lives are in now.