I think my gf might be pregnant. Please help.

Andrew, you are both very young and you have a full life ahead of you. If there is one thing I learned it's that when you lose one love another can be found. If this relationship works out that is great, but if it doesn't there are many good women waiting to meet you.

Where's Chai? lol

I don't care about any other woman. If something happens between us, I would shoot myself. I would not want to be with anyone else.

Jesus H. Christ....are you stupid or just plain out moronic ? (sorry ladies i'm pmsing...that's no excuse but ....) if there is one thing that i can't stand it's when someone says that they will kill themselves if someone they "love" left them...you know what...get over it!!! A lot of people I know have lost someone they have loved but they have not stopped living and that is because the person that they lost (wether it be through death or other wise) showed them that life was worth living no matter what. If you love her that much then you would go on living because of the fact that you love her...if you die then how would she feel? Or if what shiver is saying is true (and from the way I look at it as well) she is what i call "emotionally challeged" don't let her pull your strings if she loves you as much as she says then she wouldn't be bringing up her ex---and if she loved HIM that much then why did she leave him?

Ohhh HELL!.....I'm with bsingh5 here, are you just stupid?

Andrew...."emotional string puller". See your above statement.

If she's all that and a box of chocolates, then she wouldn't have you wanting to pull your hair out over an ex, or worried about it.

Let me ask one question?

Before the pregnancy scare, what else sticks out in your mind in this relationship? Were there any other drama's? Was everything just smoothe sailing....or has there been something else that happened?


Spill the beans here bub..........how long have you two dated?

I am appointing bsingh5 to be Chai Jr.


you made me splutter my caffeine free diet coke.

andrew...

mature love does not suffer from the pendulum swings yours does.

ecstatic one minute, devastated the next....where are you right now?



When you were telling the story of her sitting there patting her tummy over the "baby", that said a lot to me. Women pat their tummies, but not when they haven't even missed....I was thinking she was playing you then.

IMO she just flat out needs to be asked..."Do you want to be with me, or him? If you choose me, I don't want to hear any more about him"

I know that's different from my first advice, but it seems more now she's bringing him up to play games.

Can you tell us more about your girlfriend?

You know what, just forget it. I'm leaving this place. I just don't care anymore.

Andrew, don't like what we have to say? We are all adult grown women here, who have been there, done that. And sometimes people say things you don't want to hear, because its the truth.

We are trying to help you...to keep you from getting your heart broken by giving you a heads up beforehand. To give you an inclination of what some people are capable of. Love blinds most, and those it blinds..it hurts the worst.

We are asking these questions about your relationship with this young lady to help figure out what her motives are with you. And whats behind the emotional drama you have going on....w/her.

So if you feel the need to leave, then I wish you the best of luck. But I wish you would stick around and talk through this.

Theres no cure for adolescents.

Your to pumped up on emotion and hormones to make any desision based on logic and reason which doesn't even exist yet. It's a wonder half of us even make it.

Some how you get through it, access the damage and time moves you forward before you even know what the hell happened.

I want to go back. It was great. That was real, this is bullshit.

So, when things are going your way, fine.

When the chips are down...you're out of here?




You know what, just forget it.....go ahead...


I know Amigo...when people say they'd like to go back to that time, I figure they must be crazy...

one of the hardest times of life...or at least feels like it at the time.

Amigo, what you on brother? No way would go back to being a teen. Hell, I can't even remember most of it.

This girl is bad news, plain and simple. Watch yourself. Drama queens have a way of sneaking up on you when you think everything is peachy.

And killing yourself over this?! C'mon. Let's get real, okay. There are other girls who will want to have sex with you who won't treat you like crap.
You can't trust her.
Say your sweet goodbyes and then change your phone number.

my thoughts.

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Hardest time of life my sweet ass.

Wait till this kid gets the girl pregnant and he is married to her 10 years and everything he loved about that 19 year old girl is looooooong gone (and I mean everything) or never even existed and now shes 240 pnds of bitterness because this beerbelly bum in a dead end job ruined her life by knocking her up when she could have married her boyfriend before this bum, the love of her life that became a doctor.

And he is also bitter because he had to drop out of college to work more hours and support the kid that listens to Norwegian death metal and wears trench coats in summer and aslo won't listen to a word dad says because..........You know.

Pull your head out of your ASS kid. We were all 19. We were you. We know what we are talking about. Take it easy and teach your girlfreind what a blowjob is.

wow amigo....I feel......like I want to be married to a doctor.

And I want to be married to a 19 year old.

lol.

Lesson: Use condoms.
Don't marry young.
Have fun while you can.

Guys, the first main thing I want to do is apologize. I really wasn't thinking. I had a bad day at work, and everything. I talked to her about it, and she understands. She didn't metion him at all today. She said that she is really happy that she is with me and everything.

Good, I'm glad your back.....

Now...never say things like you said earlier...again. Whether you meant it or not, sometimes things we say have a way of coming back and biting us in the ass.




Humm....good.

I really like it here, and All of you have helped me and made me realise everything. If she would have been, then I would supported her through everything, and help raise my baby. But now, we will use condoms, and wait till were done with college and have a better paying job. I would like to keep this topic going, and I want to THANK EVERYONE OF YOU!

Whew! Good to know, Andrew.