I think my gf might be pregnant. Please help.

A chance, definitely. That doesn't mean that she IS pregnant, of course. But a chance, yes.

So, how much of a possibility is it that she is?

The only way you will know for sure is for her to take a pregnancy test in a few days. From now on be smart and use condoms.

Way too many variables to say with any certainty. Your sperm count, your sperm motility (how many sperm and how fast they move), how aroused/ lubricated she was when she put her underwear back on, whether she was ovulating, how fertile she is (how easily a fertilized egg implants in the uterus), and on and on and on.

Short version is, if you don't want her to get pregnant, it's not a good idea to let sperm come anywhere near the vaginal opening, and you need to be a lot more careful. But I can't tell you anything about how likely it is in this specific situation. Probably not that likely, but could definitely happen.

You can get an early pregnancy test as early as a week after the possible conception to put your mind at ease.

Good luck...

You don't even need to orgasm for her to get pregnant. As for "Help", it's a little late now.

I'm sure she isnt, because I'm sure none got inside of her, because it was not like ON it, and it was a kinda far apart from her vagina.

Let's hope this is just the scare that will get you to start acting like an adult and use protection.

I suggest you read Sozobe's post one more time. Inside is not necessary - though it usually is.

Good grief, if you are making love or having sex at this level, please get some protection. And, at the least, talk about it with each other. Are you cheerfully committing to take care of a child for the next couple of decades?

And each other? You are committed to each other?




I can understand that you wouldn't be commtted to each other.. yet, or possibly never. But, what are you doing not using contraception, if so? You like to throw dice for hope?

Yes, I am. If she is then I will support her and take care of my baby. She kept telling me that she kept feeling something wet there for a while after she got her clothes on and we went outside to play basketball. I'm just hoping she's not.

So, this is conjecture? has she missed a period?

This may all be worry-for-nothing, but it is still smart that you two discuss all this.

As a warning, marrying for life is a long long time. Taking care of contraception while you learn about each other can make a lot of sense in the long run. Life is long... unless you are hit by a truck, etc.

Perhaps you are all for going for it. But she may not be, if she has a chance to really think about it. Marriage can be for a long long time.
Thrill of sex is not really enough reason to commit for life, though many do... many are sorry shortly afterwards.

she should have at least showered....

She hasnt missed a period this month yet. She just got over one not too long ago, and I'm hoping she doesnt miss one.

I am fully committed to her, and I know she is the one I'm going to marry. We both talked about how we want a baby, and start a family.

geez, louise, showering doesn't help, much, though I'll grant a smidge of possibility.

You want a baby? Well, you probably are not getting one through all this, but it is possible.

I'll back off then from advice to contraception.

Err, i was more concerned about the people she was hanging with at the basketball game right after... i wouldn't want to be one of them... anyway, carry on, that's just me...

I missed the basketball game, I was off on my own zone...

You got it all wrong, she is not like that, okay. You can get over that now.

But anyway, I will get through this in the best way no matter what.

Andrew, you are obviously very young - way to young to even think about marriage and children. I think both you and your girlfriend need to learn more about sex on the intellectual level instead of just the physical level. I'm not sure where you live so I don't know if you have parents or a school that would be helpful, but I suggest you go to a library and get books about about teen health. If you are in the USA I suggest your girlfriend call a local Planned Parenthood Clinic and make an appointment to talk about safe sex. A well trained person can give you all the information you obviously are lacking. I am not suggesting the internest because there is so much mis-information (even from the governement) here.

Thats good advice to not only the young but to everyone .

Im sure its 50 / 50 even with adults on exactly all of the above , sometimes people assume and take it through life .