Guys, does this mean anything..

Green Witch wrote:

I agree with the Greek Chorus here that is singing "go for it". The possibility of a nice relationship is worth the possibility of rejection. Chai is right, no one notices the lives of others, they are too absorbed in themselves. Take control of your happiness and start by creating more opportunities for it.

I totally want to but im such a fraidy cat.

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Region Philbis wrote:

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Did I mention he is the teacher?

oops.
check please...

Hehehe, makes it more fun eh!

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material girl wrote:

He's the only attractive guy in a room full of women, if i pay him extra attention,I reckon people will notice, plus i suppose people in the past have taken the p*ss out of me re liking someone so its kind of stuck with me.

Exactly, if we are all looking for the same thing and I get it, alot of ladies are gona be cheesed off.

Did I mention he is the teacher?

So what if people notice?
What? They're allowed to try to get someones attention, and you're not?

People in the past have taken.....re liking someone?
Screw them.....some people can only make themselves feel good by putting someone else down....they're w*nkers!

I'm sending you vibes right now to build you up (mmmmmmm.....feel them?) not bring you down.

I know, I know, you're self conscious, that's natural....we're all rooting for you here...GO FOR IT!

c'mom everybody....let's join hands and chant...

goforitmg, goforitmg, goforitmg.....

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Well, Im smiling with a slight giggle thrown in so its kinda working.

Can i assume the * wasnt an i.

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Sorry to be negative again and thanks for being nice to me but I genuinely feel that happiness/having a boyfriend is something that happens to other people.
Ive been on my own most of my life.Thers nothing like not having a partner to amke someone feel like kaka about themselves.

Aaaaaand absorbing the good vibes......breeeath iiiiiin...and ouuut....

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chai tea- yeah i know what you are thinking, but it isnt really like that, cos ive been quite lucky.

my last boyfriend i had great fun with and i didnt actually do 'it' with him untill we had been together 3 months. i just got together with him when we were drunk, and we had a good realtionship, we really loved each other, untill he moved to uni and i couldnt cope and the whole relationship got full of arguments etc.

second one, i had only met once when i slept with him on new years, and then i felt like such a slag in the morning i went out with him to 'make it better' but now we have a great relationship,a nd he is the kindest, loveliest, sweetest guy, and we have such a laugh and we have loads in common.
but things could have been very different. so i do suppose that getting drunk isnt a very recomended course of action, its just easier to make those kind of come-ons when you are out of your skull.

and wow thanks mg, that is avery nice compliment.

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Material girl EVERYONE gets depressed like that at some points, and i felt the same way before my 1st boyfriend. but seriously, its not like that.
try thinking positivley, its so much more attractive than moaping.

i think we need to build your confidence up.
but how??? you seem stuck in a rut girl!
seriously, what can we do to help?

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Praise were praise is due PQ-
I do agree that its easier to exprees lust/love when your off yuor face.

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material girl wrote:

Well, Im smiling with a slight giggle thrown in so its kinda working.

Can i assume the * wasnt an i.

yes you can, and it wasn't an "o" either...lord ellpus is teaching me all these dirty british words....like spatula and oven mitts.

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The Pentacle Queen wrote:

Material girl EVERYONE gets depressed like that at some points, and i felt the same way before my 1st boyfriend. but seriously, its not like that.
try thinking positivley, its so much more attractive than moaping.

i think we need to build your confidence up.
but how??? you seem stuck in a rut girl!
seriously, what can we do to help?

Im mopy to you lot but I try to be jolly around people.

I am totally stuck in a rut.I know im as nice as anyone else and in some cases im better than other people but Im obviously lacking what guys want.

No idea how you can help.

Guys, what do yuo look for in a gal?

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Chai Tea wrote:

material girl wrote:
Well, Im smiling with a slight giggle thrown in so its kinda working.

Can i assume the * wasnt an i.

yes you can, and it wasn't an "o" either...lord ellpus is teaching me all these dirty british words....like spatula and oven mitts.

Il be thinking of the word 'spatula' tonight, hopefully the guy will catch me with a silly grin on my face.

Plimsoll is another word.

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well i heard the thing they look for most is confidence! thats prob why the 'off my face' thing works

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Christ Im stuffed.

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Did you mean he was the teacher in a class you were taking or something?

Years ago, I took an adult spanish class with the sole intent of meeting someone to date.

I ended up going out with the teacher.

We only went out once, but that's because I realized I didn't like him.

I'm trying to remember how we ended up going out.....hmmmm....

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Yep, he's the teacher in a class Im doing.

Its not as tho Im a 14 year old pupil and he is 50.

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material girl wrote:

Yep, he's the teacher in a class Im doing.

Its not as tho Im a 14 year old pupil and he is 50.

Oh, didn't think you were.

God, I really can't remember how I got him to ask me out....

I think I made it a point to hang around, being the last person to leave the class, walking out with him type of thing....that's totally not like me and it felt really strange. I've never been one to even go up and talk to a teacher after class, like to ask questions. As a matter of fact, I could never figure out what everyone else was standing around waiting to talk to them for. Me, class is over and I leave.

But the fact was, I had to do something that made me feel a little uncomfortable, and it worked.

But, I suppose it worked....again, he didn't end up making a big impression on me.

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Hmmm.
I know! How about you organise a class party!!! with loads of alcohol, and then you could....

Oh no, but then tai chi wouldnt approve because it wouldnt be a 'relationship.'

nah, only joking. I should stop taking offence to everything.

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Sadly I have to go a bit before class ends because I have to take a friend thats with me to the train station.
I do get the impression that the class goes on longer than advertised.Nobody is getting there stuff ready at the appointed time.
Also makes me think he isnt rushing to get home to anyone!!

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I dont know why Im going on about this, I cant even remember what he looks like.

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You must remember him, MG.....he's the one with the vibrating flies.

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