Guys, does this mean anything..

You've got your head together in that respect mg.

I just worry about PQ.

Arnt you kind.
I suppose we have to live and learn.

yeah, I know...

but you never know what someone will remember when they need to...

anyway, what's going on with the jewelry guy?!

Nothing, I only see him once a week, last time next week.

Im planning what to wear that seems appropriate,and yet at the same time screams out 'Im yours,all yours, I will make you happy'.

Il try and slip in the Jewish/neopolitan dick question tomorrow.

mg

Just ask if he'd like a drink/coffee after you meet him and you'll soon know if there's any interest.

Guys REALLY don't mind being asked out - unless they are totally obsessed with being "the man".

Go for it!

KP

But then he will know that I like him and if he says no it will be embarrassing beyond anything, ever.
Plus Ive never asked a guy out.
What if he is attatched already, very awkward.

Think Im gona have to work on my flirty smile which at the moment is just a look of confused fear.
My spot is still there so Im not pinning my hopes on him proposing.

My horoscope says good things about love so Ive got that to hang on to.

mg

I understand that it is embarrassing to be told "no, sorry" - if he's attached he'll just see it as being flattering and will not mind. If he's single, then at least you can say afterwards that you took your chance.

I think you should start now with asking out men you like - nothing wrong with it at all. You don't have to make it very formal, just "I've enjoyed seeing you here and I'd like to see you some other time for coffee/a drink/whatever". Don't make it dinner - it can always become that.

I dare you!

KP

Id find it more embarressing if he said yes!!!
Also if other people find out, no matter what his answer is.

I dont get to meet people so I dont get to fancy anyone so I cant ask people out.

I know im such a fraidy cat but this is a big thing for me.Im sure other people do this kind of thing on a regular basis but not me.

Ive got 5 more hours to make him worship me.

i double-dare ya, mg

Stop it with the dare and double daring!!!!!!If I was drunk Id have no problem.

here -- drink these right quick

Id just be belching and botty popping after I drink all those.
Not an attractive quality a guy looks for in a gal.

some guys dig a gal who drinks, and all the stuff that goes with it...

So I have to work out if he is Jewish, has a 3 coloured dick and if he likes a lady that farts in his face!!
No pressure then!!!!

You've got your chat up line right there!

Hahahahahahha, if only it were that simple.

If he says yes, your embarressment will last 2 seconds, then you'll think "yessssss...."

What do you mean, "if other people find out, no matter what his answer is"?

Believe me, other people don't care. They're too busy worry about how they're going to chat up the girl they fancy at the coffee shop.

We're all in the same boat, all looking for the same thing.

Yeah, I agree with Pete. I don't think generally a guy will feel ackward about it...he'll be flattered, then he probably won't even think about it. I mean, look how women are always saying..."He doesn't NOTICE anything!" well, sometimes, this can work in your favor.

Hey, go for it mg, chai sez so....

He's the only attractive guy in a room full of women, if i pay him extra attention,I reckon people will notice, plus i suppose people in the past have taken the p*ss out of me re liking someone so its kind of stuck with me.

Exactly, if we are all looking for the same thing and I get it, alot of ladies are gona be cheesed off.

Did I mention he is the teacher?

I agree with the Greek Chorus here that is singing "go for it". The possibility of a nice relationship is worth the possibility of rejection. Chai is right, no one notices the lives of others, they are too absorbed in themselves. Take control of your happiness and start by creating more opportunities for it.

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