Public Fighting

KK, maybe you and yours need to leave the alcohol alone.....

And I'm sorry, but like I said earlier, If your man enough to dish it out, you'd better be man enough to take it. Even scratches on his chest can get you in trouble....he's marked, you aren't.

You say its never happened to you? But...there isn't any difference in the abuse..if it gets physical.

Whats the difference?

What I mean is, my husband has never threatened to kill or hit me due to being drunk or even sober. The only time we have ever physically fought was when we had both been drinking.

Sorry if I am a little rude but I want to make sure that your response doesn't get taken out of control again.

What I mean is, my husband has never threatened to kill or hit me due to being drunk or even sober. The only time we have ever physically fought was when we had both been drinking.

Out of control? LOL, not yet.........

If you want out of control, I'll give it to ya...

Quit your damned whining and suffer through your exhaustive relationship the best way you can. Or better yet, leave him...its apparent he's a controllable ass that you've enable. You've allowed him to get away with his attitude...quite frankly, I think you like it.

Some people aren't happy unless they are miserable and each person they come in contact with are also....

Kitkat, have you re-read any of your posts? Just out curiousity, I'm wondering what you think about that idea ?

Truth hurts...doesn't it? LOL

You found my post offensive? LOL

Huh...it seems to me that your're the one that likes drama and being miserable...or at least making other people miserable. I find these two lines very interesting. It seems to me that you like to start a fight no matter if the person wants it or not.

It definatly gives me a whole different perspective and opinion on your physical fight with your husband.

As for me, I was almost positive that I mentioned not wanting the topic of alcoholism to get out of control, not the beatings of husbands or vice-versa.

I am not your husband that got you so heated up just mentioning how he wanted to hit you, so you don't have to talk to me like I am.

It sounds to me like you are the firey one who I could see who would be just waiting for the opportunity to hit him.

And FYI, I hate being miserable. I hate being treated this way. I have always been considered the sweet girl next door. I don't like fights, I try my hardest not to get involved in them. I "whine" as you say on here to look for hope, not to glorify myself. I have always been the optimistic one and the all around happy one in the group. I am the one that everyone turns to when they are haveing a crappy day because I am the one that puts a smile on their faces.

P.S. Stop saying "Excuse me?" like your're offended by what everyone says, if you can dish it out you can take it.

I don't believe anywhere in my postings were you asked to escalate the situation.
Add all the words you care too, but it is no where within any sentence structure.

How did I make you miserable? The fact that I hit the nail on the head?
Go ahead Dr. Phill....I give you perfectly good life examples of a situation, physco analyis it if you feel the need to
Funny though..someone that can't figure out her own situation, can sure figure out mine...

Who mentioned ALCOHOLISM? I didn't.
No where did I state the fact anyone was an alcoholic?
You sure get defensive over it though??

KK, maybe you and yours need to leave the alcohol alone.....

Tit for Tat...I can see now why YOUR boyfriend treats you like he does...your assumptions, are so way off base........but you go ahead there Dr. Phill...physco analysis the situation. Again, can't deal with your own relationship, but you have me figured out....you go girl....

Hey, that's big talk from someone who's not even a REAL redhead!