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A question for the guys...

 
 
Treya
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 11:55 am
LOL! Too funny...
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Chai
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 12:24 pm
Re: A question for the guys...
nimh wrote:
hephzibah wrote:
How do you guys know a girl is "interested"?

When she kisses me.

Hey, I've tried to find out reliable signs from before that, but ... <sighs> Women. :wink:


I told you last week I was falling in love with you....what did I get from you?

Bupkis.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 12:28 pm
nimh...

your


cheating


on


me


with


her?????
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Chai
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 01:18 pm
yes....he even knows the shade of auburn I dye my hair.

I couldn't decide between Porn Star Red and Dirty Little Whore Red, and he helped me out.


nya nya nya.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 01:21 pm
No wonder my husband has a crush on you, Chai Tea! He's a sucker for a redhead!
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 02:13 pm
im crushed..


just crushed..


even my fake nails are in pain..
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Chumly
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 02:15 pm
Momma Angel wrote:
Chumly ~ musicians invented the game!
You are right Exclamation
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 02:20 pm
Chumly,

I am married to a musician, remember? :wink:
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Chumly
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 02:36 pm
Yup
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Treya
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 05:05 pm
NIIIIICE hair Chai! It's you! Hehehe...
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 05:08 pm
Shocked Are you trying to bust my husband's bubble woman!??? Shocked
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2PacksAday
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 05:18 pm
Chai Tea wrote:
I couldn't decide between Porn Star Red and Dirty Little Whore Red....



Those are both nice choices, but I've always been partial to... "Old Worn Out Whore - Burnt Umber"....such a classy look.
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Intrepid
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 06:49 pm
hephzibah wrote:
Quote:
You said it with your own words above.... "honestly speaking". Oh, the games people play. Both men and women. The best way to let somebody know how you feel is to tell them. Being prepared for either rejection or acceptance.


I agree. That is my usual route of doing things. However, let me ask you this... What exactly is one to do when you do this and are told one thing and the actions are completely different? I would much rather have someone say to me, "No" in the first place than tell me, "Do this and you'll get the response you are looking for." and then do it and get the same response as always. That's rejection with a lie thrown in there. A little twist of the knife if you ask me.

Quote:
If you get rejection, you can look at it that you have saved some valuable time and heartache. If it is acceptance. Maintain meaningful dialogue.


I agree. I can deal with rejection. What I can't deal with is being lied to or manipulated.

Quote:
Looking for 'signs' and second guessing is fine in a meaningless flirtation. For something more, honest dialogue is the best policy.


I have momentarily lost my faith in honest dialogue within a relationship. Sorry.

Quote:
Eleanor Roosevelt said, "Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission." These are true words. Feel good about yourself and others will follow your lead.


It is easy to say such things when you aren't the one sitting in the pot being boiled. No offence of course. But come on Intrepid. Get real. What I am feeling is totally normal. No I'm not going to dwell here forever. Gosh, I hope not anyway. However, certain actions do cause certain reactions. That's not an excuse, it's life. It's how you deal with the reactions that matter, because the reactions will happen whether we like it or not.


Yes, it is easy to say. How do you know whether I am also sitting in the boiling pot or not? And, no offence taken. I guess it depends on whether you are talking about a situation in an already meaningful relationship or a new one. Yes, it is how you deal with it and how to deal with it is not the same for everybody. Moving forward and upward is the way to go. IMHO.
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Intrepid
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 06:51 pm
Games are for kids
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Treya
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 07:02 pm
Intrepid wrote:

Quote:
Yes, it is easy to say. How do you know whether I am also sitting in the boiling pot or not? And, no offence taken. I guess it depends on whether you are talking about a situation in an already meaningful relationship or a new one. Yes, it is how you deal with it and how to deal with it is not the same for everybody. Moving forward and upward is the way to go. IMHO.


HA! Good point. I really don't know. Thank you for pointing that out and for not taking offence. Much appreciated. Yes, moving forward and upward is the way to go. I agree. It's just that sometimes the paths the people take to get to the same end are a little different. Which is ok. We can only take things in stride. One day at a time, and tackle the issues as they come up. I feel I am making pretty significant progress lately. Maybe not as fast as some, maybe not as slow as others, either way, I want to make the best of this. Letting go is hard. I just want to do what's right.

And huh... I thought trix were for kids? LOL
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nimh
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 07:36 pm
shewolfnm wrote:
nimh...

your


cheating


on


me


with


her?????

Noooooo...

I wouldnt dare to!

'Sides - baby - what would I need anyone but you for!





Psst, Chai - you do remember what I said about what you'd have to do if you did go with the Dirty Little Whore Red like I suggested, right?
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Chai
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 07:44 pm
nimh wrote:

Psst, Chai - you do remember what I said about what you'd have to do if you did go with the Dirty Little Whore Red like I suggested, right?


My husband makes the same suggestion night after night....I'm impervious to the pleading. I'd rather wear the bag over my head.


2packs - What about "Rode Hard and Put Up Wet Red"?
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2PacksAday
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 10:44 pm
Another fine choice....that shade went well with Covergirls "Screw Me Til' I'm Blue" eyeshadow....was big in the early 80's.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 20 Mar, 2006 10:45 pm
Chai Tea,

Please NOOOOOOOOOO blue eye shadow!
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Chai
 
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Reply Tue 21 Mar, 2006 05:24 am
2PacksAday wrote:
Another fine choice....that shade went well with Covergirls "Screw Me Til' I'm Blue" eyeshadow....was big in the early 80's.


Yes, that particular shade complimented the grayish blue of the cigarette smoke being blown out the nostrils.

See hep...you're learning all kinds of stuff.
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