Ok, I need some help here on a slightly perplexing situation. Some months ago, I was dating a guy, let's call him "I", for sometime. I was also seeing someone pretty seriously (in Prague) around the same time - so "I" was purely for fun. "I" sort of hinted at the friendship becoming more serious (the dreaded "R" word), but since I was not much interested (even though he is a great guy) - I never really gave it a serious thought. "I" is now a very good friend, but he still harbours more than friendly feelings for me (and I know this for sure).
I went out with "I" yesterday, and "I"'s flatmate, who is also his best friend, unexpectedly joined us. This was the first time I met him - and my eyes popped out !!
He is a really great guy, and (even to my unexperienced eyes) the sparks between us were definitely flying. But if I do go out with him, I am sure I will end up hurting "I" in the process. I think that he thinks the same as well, as I can be pretty sure that he knows abt the feelings which "I" has for me. So we flirted (that I always do
) but it was much restrained.
I want to go out with him, and (I think) he with me - but how do we do it without hurting "I" ??
What do I do ?