Advice from women?

I would say get me drunk. hehehe! Thats how ive ended up meeting all of my boyfriends.

Perplexed,
Please do not be offended. I think you will be okay if you chill and not worry too much about women right now.

Y'know what, it might be a lot better if you deal with the Avoidant PD first, then worry about a girlfriend. APD is complicated and can take some time to treat. It's really important.

As far as working out and such: either do it alone, or with someone equally weak/weaker/less athletic than yourself. Not joking. It'll make you feel good, and give you plans for after school.

Pack your schedule with places to go, or activities to do. You'll end up meeting people who like you, simply by sheer amount of people you encounter and by being involved in your own interests.

Soz made a good point: Talk to shy girls and the like. No intentions: just practise getting over "what they think matters/reflects who I am" by saying "Hello" whatever and leaving it at that. Whatever. Give things a shot. Step back from the situation and ask yourself "Did anything explode? Did anyone throw rotten tomatos at me?" . No? Well, then, good. lol.

Chai, that's exactly the sort of situation where I meet most of the people that end up meaning something to me: Just happen to be somewhere, and chat someone up, or go with the moment.
Little moments like that are the best!

Peace out.

I wasn't calling you A pussy....

*pours us each a drink*

If it wasn't for alcohol, my number of sex partners would easily be cut in half.

Hi Slappy....I would seriously like your opinion on something...

There's another thread going on about the fathers of an unplanned pregnancy having more say so in the decision of having/supporting the baby.

Reading the posts there really was food for thought. Soz made had a thought that to me made a lot of sense...

If you're in a serious thinking mood, read the posts there, I'd be interested in your take on this.

This is based on the fact that you are a single, childless, sexually active man.

I can't find that thread, what's the name?

http://www.able2know.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=70752&highlight=

thanks.

if it hadnt been for alcohol, i dont think i would have ever had sex. haha

*pours you several more drinks*

I know you didn't, but I'm sure you have at least once through the years :-)

Hey, me too

<muttering>...

drunken slots.

How to REALLY get laid

But slappy, I'm not looking just to "get laid", I'm looking for love.

I've got two words for you:

Be Real.

I need you to be a bit more specific

Ok, lets see here....

Be who you are, realizing it is ok, and not everyone is going to like that. Which is ok as well.

Evaluate your motives from a real perspective. Not always needing to be right or feel justified, just simply being willing to see why you want what you want.

Realize that it's a two way street. Both parties need to be willing to give into the relationship for it to really work.

Encourage your partner to be the best they can be, and that you love them despite their imperfections.

Ask, ask, ask. Don't ever assume that you know what the other person is feeling or thinking regardless of how they are acting.

Listen and hear. This is very important. People will tell you what they need if you give them the chance.

Whoa... that's almost scarey.... LOL