DO NOT like Strap On and Toys, how to tell HER?

And I learned in Lesbian dating 101 that what I learned in sexuality101 is male-dominated hooey!

And there's no male-dominated hooey going on when you insist that a lifelong lesbian has something wrong with her if she doesn't like the idea of penises or dildos...

What are you talking about? Seriously.
I'm not a straight married women living in "Kansas".

You're silly.

Is there anything else but a lifelong lesbian? Are there half life lesbians?

Well, Kinsey scale and such. Some people are more towards bisexual. She seems to be pretty solidly a 6 (all homosexual preference, no heterosexual preference).

I think sexuality has officially replaced relegion here as the hot button.



All I want to know is if the initial poster has found our musings helpful.

And then there are the combinations:

http://www.able2know.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=68642

Agreed, what is your thinking now, td8181? Have you talked to your girlfriend yet?

That deserves a new thread....actually, isn't there one already?

That's male-dominated hooey.

I think the solution might be a smaller strap-on.

I never said that ANYTHING was wrong with her. What I found unusual was her stance that woman using a strap-on is a heterosexual act.

Why is a strap-on necessary at all? Why can't she just say, nuh-uh, don't want to, and have that be respected?

It is obviously deeper than that (no pun intended) otherwise she wouldn't be desperate enough to sek advice from married straight women from Winnipeg.

Roxanne, please do not refer to me (seeing how I am the only one posting here from Winnipeg).

Your assumptions are incorrect and rude. I would appreciate it if you would simply not speak about me, except directly to me.
Thank you.

But flushd, don't you see how important and relevant it is to know you are from Winnipeg? Surely you can't know anything if you live in Winnipeg, or Kansas for that matter!

Apparently there's only one lesbian here who knows about lesbian relationships...but wait, she's not a lesbian, rather bisexual, my bad...clearly bisexuals know everything about lesbians!

I may be chiming in too late here but maybe it shoulnt even be about the lesbian thing. I just look at it as if it were me. Reguardless of whether I like women or men or both if I am uncomfortable with something sexually, that should be respected by my partner whatever gender. Although in that same aspect it is healthy to push your own sexual boundaries, but thats when your ready. Not for anyone else to decide.

Totally, but some people don't get that concept! Good advise!

Rox, I certainly hope you are kidding about the above. (I connected to the like, but not going to bother reading on and on to see if you are joking)

Up until now, I've just viewed you as young and opinionated. Super, I'm middle aged and opinionated.

But now, reading you, you are just bound and determined to get the initial poster to try something SHE DOES NOT WANT TO DO!

She doesn't need a counselor
She doesn't need to talk to other lesbians
She doesn't need to talk to us.
She..doesn't..have..to..do..what..her..girlfriend..is asking.

There seems to be a rash lately of people joining here that have been here a really short time, that assume to know the most important things about us.

When you don't get something a poster as said that sound odd, it's because it's an inside joke you haven't been around long enough to know about.

Hell, I see stuff all the time that I don't know what it means, but having had time to know the people, know it's an inside joke.

Instead of coming across as savy, you're responding to good natured ribbing by slashing at everyone with a knife.

One thing I've learned is if one person is saying something, it may be just their estimation.

If most people start saying it....well.....

Get a grip sug, it's Sunday, take it easy. Enjoy, life's too short.

Jesus, I can just see the conversation....

"I don't want that dildo in my vaginia"
"Well, how about this smaller one?"

Frankly, that is just about the STUPIDEST thing I have ever heard.

"I don't want to put that penis in my mouth"
"well, how about if you just put half of it in"

I think what she needs is to start watching porn everyday and ask her gf to "trade-in" the black one for a pink one. If she still thinks something is wrong with being penetrated with a pink strap-on and thinks it is a hetereosexual act then she really should seek professional help. And not from frustrated, desperate housewives from Kansas with too much time on their hands and no insight.