Foxfyre wrote:Most pro-lifers I think put the responsibility for that squarely on the heads of the parents who have no business risking pregnancy unless they can provide a child with what s/he needs.
ah-hah! so there it is. what you've just said is basically; "people have no business engaging in sex unless it's for the purpose of having a child".
you know that contraception is not 100% effective 100% of the time.
your opinion is based on a moral judgement regarding sex.
as to you're statement that i'm being unfair. most pro-lifers identify themselves not only as people of "faith", but also as conservatives.
to the best of my knowledge, conservatives are the ones who i hear most often complain about paying for a national health care system. and for public schools. conservatives are the ones that have been instrumental in seeing music and art classes diminished in public schools. conservatives are the leaders on not only choosing to keep teachers under payed and over worked, they are also more than vocal about how crappy and lazy teachers are. coming from a family of teachers, i can assure you that not one of them fits the image that conservatives paint of educators.
frankly foxy, the whole adoption thing is smoke and mirrors. if, as we are told every day by pro-lifers, that "america is a christian country" and pro-lifers, which we are also told are the majority of americans (spin at it's best), there would be a very, very much smaller number of orphanages and the foster care system would be much sleaker.
and i wish i had a nickel for everytime i've seen "i'm pro-life", Support the troops", "w/04", "proud parent of a marine" bumper stickers on the same car. frequently slightly below the requisite "trunk fish".
so to paraphrase your comment;
pro-lifers have no business insisting on someone else completing a pregnancy unless they are personally willing to adopt the unwanted child and provide that child with what s/he needs
and wants. the pro-lifers must also assure that their "pro life" stewardship of that child extends into adulthood and they will do all in their power to keep the child's life from ending in organized violence when some dumb bohunk decides that he wants his "pro-life" legacy to be that he was "the war president".