hmmm... foxy, here's what you first said:
Foxfyre wrote:Most pro-lifers I think put the responsibility for that squarely on the heads of the parents who have no business risking pregnancy unless they can provide a child with what s/he needs.
followed by;
Foxfyre wrote:DTOM writes
Quote:ah-hah! so there it is. what you've just said is basically; "people have no business engaging in sex unless it's for the purpose of having a child".
No, but that's the sort of straw man I would expect most Lefties to build out of what I did say. Most uncharacteristic of you though, my friend.
and then echoed your original comment;
Foxfyre wrote:What I've said is not even basically but absolutely it is my opinion that people have no business engaging in sex unless they are prepared to accept the responsibility for any consequences of that choice. There is a huge difference beween that and what you just said.
you don't see how that can be taken ? in your statement, the lone consequence is to bear a child. however, in reality, the choice to make the tuff decision to terminate the pregnancy is also a consequence.
it still comes across as, "don't have sex unless you are 100% willing to have a child".
and in the life of a person of faith, or whatever, that's a fine outlook; "go forth and multiply".
that is your right.
but it gets dodgy when a person of a particular faith insists that
everyone believe as s/he does and be bound by those guidelines.
your faith, your rules. be my guest. the difference between the pro-life and the pro-choice view of things is this;
pro-choice indicates just that. "you have the choice and
you are the one to make it".
if you don't believe in abortion, do__ not__ have__ one.
the pro-life view is; " i do not believe in abortion. therefore, you should not and i will insist that you do not and moreover will physically restrain you from doing so. you will live by my rules of religion."
please explain to me why, realistically, i or anyone else should be forced to live out my life under the yolk of someone else's religion. not just on this issue, but on any of the plethora of wedgey little numbers currently in play.
that certainly is not democracy or freedom of religion. that looks more like theocracy.
now, just for the info value, i'm linking to the latest polls on abortion. they are somewhat revealing as to how many different ways the issue gets viewed.
but the quick version is that only about 26% or so are in favor of total ban on all abortion. not a majority by any stretch is it ?
http://www.pollingreport.com/abortion.htm