Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 02:06 am
Thanks, DTOM! That's exactly what I thought as well: at first my "personal thing", than the police and court.
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 05:49 am
Debra_Law wrote:
John Creasy wrote:
Debra_Law wrote:

It is the known existence of violence and the threat of violence against women that the Supreme Court contemplated when it ruled that men (especially men like Greasy) have no right to be notified when a woman decides to terminate a pregnancy.


Maybe there is just some things in life that you should never do, like mess with a man's kids.


There you go again. Exhibiting your possessory, controlling, sexist view of your alleged male property interests and making threats again.

Admit it, acknowledge it, and live with it: You have no legally recognizable rights to tell a woman anything when it comes to HER decision whether to continue or terminate a pregnancy. So there. Whatcha gonna do about it besides punch a hole in the wall?

Maybe you shouldn't go around threatening people not to mess with you. I think you ought to go to anger management classes and learn to manage your sexist control issues before you hurt someone if you haven't already done so.

Well, I could say that the same applies to a woman's kids, but in this situation, it is obvious that the woman doesn't give a damn.

There you go with your "legal" rhetoric again. I might not have a legal right, but I do have a moral right. The law is not all-mighty. It is an invention of humans with flaws just like everything else.

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and if a man were to try to force my daughter (or my nieces), married, unmarried, in love or not, to bear him a child against her will....
And that is entirely understandable although that daughter would still be in the wrong. If she conceived that child consentually, then she has no right to deprive that father of a child. Of course, if the man is a deadbeat, I would make an exception, but this is not what I'm talking about.
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 06:04 am
DontTreadOnMe wrote:
John Creasy wrote:
Maybe there is just some things in life that you should never do, like mess with a man's kids.


correctomundo, johnny boy....

and if a man were to try to force my daughter (or my nieces), married, unmarried, in love or not, to bear him a child against her will....

well, let's just say that my principles as a man would come into play.


Yeah well, that's just crazy femi-boy talk.
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 08:45 am
Debra_Law wrote:

There you go again. Exhibiting your possessory, controlling, sexist view of your alleged male property interests and making threats again.


I find it ironic that you accuse me of being controlling yet you're obsession with the law is the epitomy of control. What is the law?? It's a set of rules devised by man to control people. Who's the control freak???

Do you cariacture all men as dangerous predators, or just the ones that assert themselves in a masculine way?? Maybe you watch too many Lifetime movies, but I am not a statistic, I am an individual. So don't pigeonhole me as some dangerous predator just because I am angry and have a strong opinion.
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mysteryman
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 08:59 am
One question,
Since its entirely up to a woman to decide if she wants to carry that child to term,since the man has no say in the matter,does this mean that it is 100% the fault of the woman if she gets pregnant?

If a man has no say in whether or not that fetus is allowed to live,because women say "its my body",then it is no longer a mans responsibility to use a condom,is it?

Remember,"its your body",so you take full responsibility to prevent pregnancy.
Is that fair?
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 09:45 am
mysteryman wrote:
One question,
Since its entirely up to a woman to decide if she wants to carry that child to term,since the man has no say in the matter,does this mean that it is 100% the fault of the woman if she gets pregnant?


I'd say that if we are to give the woman the bulk of the responsibility then it is 100% her choice. I don't really see the point of assigning guilt or innocence to any parties in such a situation because that's not really what this issue is about. It's about trying to ensure that all children are wanted children and that they can and will be cared for.

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If a man has no say in whether or not that fetus is allowed to live,because women say "its my body",then it is no longer a mans responsibility to use a condom,is it?


If he doesn't mind contracting diseases or paying child support.

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Remember,"its your body",so you take full responsibility to prevent pregnancy.
Is that fair?


Well, that's pretty much the way it is. Though we can and do believe that a man has some of that responsibility, the physical reality is that it is the woman who becomes pregnant, and as such, it is for her to determine the outcome.
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mysteryman
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 09:51 am
Freeduck,
You said...
Quote:
If he doesn't mind contracting diseases or paying child support.


Now,if a woman chose not to use any form of birth control,remember "its her body",then why should the man be responsible for child support?

Its her body,she knew the risks,and she made the decision,because "its her body" to not use any birth control.

So,since she made the choice,and "its her body",then there is no way that the man should have to pay support.

Remember,"its her body",so its her responsibility.
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 09:55 am
mysteryman wrote:
Freeduck,
You said...
Quote:
If he doesn't mind contracting diseases or paying child support.


Now,if a woman chose not to use any form of birth control,remember "its her body",then why should the man be responsible for child support?

Its her body,she knew the risks,and she made the decision,because "its her body" to not use any birth control.

So,since she made the choice,and "its her body",then there is no way that the man should have to pay support.

Remember,"its her body",so its her responsibility.


A man is responsible for fathering children. The woman has veto power. So long as the child remains in her body and is not yet viable, it is her decision whether to bring it into the world. Once it's here, though, it belongs to both parents unless a court order says otherwise.

You are also making a huge assumption that all pregnancies are a result of a behavioral "choice" to not use birth control.
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Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 09:59 am
mysteryman wrote:
Its her body,she knew the risks,and she made the decision,because "its her body" to not use any birth control.

So,since she made the choice,and "its her body",then there is no way that the man should have to pay support.

Remember,"its her body",so its her responsibility.


I have some difficulties with your logic - but never mind.

However, here in Europe it not only takes two to tango but for sex as well.
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mysteryman
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:08 am
FreeDuck wrote:
mysteryman wrote:
Freeduck,
You said...
Quote:
If he doesn't mind contracting diseases or paying child support.


Now,if a woman chose not to use any form of birth control,remember "its her body",then why should the man be responsible for child support?

Its her body,she knew the risks,and she made the decision,because "its her body" to not use any birth control.

So,since she made the choice,and "its her body",then there is no way that the man should have to pay support.

Remember,"its her body",so its her responsibility.


A man is responsible for fathering children. The woman has veto power. So long as the child remains in her body and is not yet viable, it is her decision whether to bring it into the world. Once it's here, though, it belongs to both parents unless a court order says otherwise.

You are also making a huge assumption that all pregnancies are a result of a behavioral "choice" to not use birth control.


If she chooses to not use her "veto power",because "its her body",then why should the man pay?
Remember,"its her body",so she is solely responsible for any pregnancy.
She chooses to not use birth control,she chooses to carry the baby,and since "its her body",she is solely responsible,unless the man chooses to pay support.

Most pregnancies,as far as I know,are based on a choice to not use birth control.
And,since "its her body",its up to her to use birth control,not the man.
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mysteryman
 
  1  
Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:09 am
Walter Hinteler wrote:
mysteryman wrote:
Its her body,she knew the risks,and she made the decision,because "its her body" to not use any birth control.

So,since she made the choice,and "its her body",then there is no way that the man should have to pay support.

Remember,"its her body",so its her responsibility.


I have some difficulties with your logic - but never mind.

However, here in Europe it not only takes two to tango but for sex as well.


It takes two for sex,but only one to decide if a child is allowed to be born.
So,only one should pay support.
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:15 am
Obviously, MM, the law would disagree with you. What you are advocating is zero responsibility for men for their actions. Whether you want to accept it or not, having an abortion is one way to accept responsibility for a pregnancy. Birth is the other. In a case where a man and a woman disagree as to what the outcome should be, whose point of view should weigh more in your mind? Someone's has to prevail.
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Anon-Voter
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:19 am
FD,

You're asking MM to think ...

Anon
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:19 am
Yes, I am.
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Anon-Voter
 
  1  
Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:21 am
Hey MM,

You want to decide to carry and have the baby ... YOU DO IT!!!
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mysteryman
 
  1  
Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:22 am
FreeDuck wrote:
Obviously, MM, the law would disagree with you. What you are advocating is zero responsibility for men for their actions. Whether you want to accept it or not, having an abortion is one way to accept responsibility for a pregnancy. Birth is the other. In a case where a man and a woman disagree as to what the outcome should be, whose point of view should weigh more in your mind? Someone's has to prevail.


I am in no way advocating "zero responsibility".

Quite the opposite.
If a woman chooses to have sex,then she chooses to accept the consequences.
Now,if she chooses to have an abortion,thats one consequence.
Or,if she chooses to carry the baby to term,thats another consequence.

Since "its her body",then she is responsible for the decision she makes,again because "its her body" and nobody else has any say in the matter.
Its called personal responsibility.

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In a case where a man and a woman disagree as to what the outcome should be, whose point of view should weigh more in your mind? Someone's has to prevail.



Simple,the one that should prevail is the one advocating LIFE.

I am pro choice,and I choose life.
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:24 am
mysteryman wrote:
Simple,the one that should prevail is the one advocating LIFE.


Why?

According to your argument, men should have no legal responsibility for children, so why would a woman who wanted an abortion choose to carry to term because the potential father wants it? If things went your way, she'd have no legal expectation of support from him.
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mysteryman
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:29 am
FreeDuck wrote:
mysteryman wrote:
Simple,the one that should prevail is the one advocating LIFE.


Why?

According to your argument, men should have no legal responsibility for children, so why would a woman who wanted an abortion choose to carry to term because the potential father wants it? If things went your way, she'd have no legal expectation of support from him.


No,I am saying that men should have no legal responsibility for a womans body.
Remember,"its her body",and men have no say in the matter.
So,since men have no say in the matter,then men have no responsibility for the outcome of HER CHOICE,no matter what that choice is.
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mysteryman
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:35 am
I am trying to point out a contradiction.

If "its her body" and the man has no say in the decision to have an abortion or not,then why should he pay for the consequences of her decision?

If I'm not allowed to decide what color you paint your house,then why should I be forced to pay for the paint?
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Fri 20 Jan, 2006 10:36 am
How are you not saying that men have no responsibility for their children, then? In what way, given your scenario, would the man be responsible for a child if the woman chooses "life"?
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