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Why have children?

 
 
Eva
 
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Reply Tue 7 Nov, 2006 11:44 pm
echi wrote:
no


That's what I thought.

Been nice talking to you...
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echi
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 12:14 am
Do you think you would have responded similarly had I answered yes?
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Joahaeyo
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 10:33 am
I've been trying to stay away from this thread because I feel like you're being stubborn. Not because you feel strongly about where you stand, but just to be defiant. It's my opinion that a normal person wouldn't reply as you have, and maybe it's good that they don't want to reproduce. I think children are more likely to end up depressed, sad about their life, when their parents come off regretting the gift of life.

As mentioned above, there's nothing wrong with not wanting a child.

Of course Eva would think differently ....I'm assuming... if you at least saw why others would want children or just respected the fact that others want to bring life into this world. This is why I felt the extra push to reply. Your reasoning doesn't make sense, and there seems to be some underlying issue. ...maybe within yourself, I don't know.
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echi
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 11:08 am
I appreciate your reply, Joahaeyo.

It's your opinion that I have no strong feelings about this, that I am just stubborn and defiant for purely selfish reasons, which barely relate to my argument. On top of this, you tell me that I am not "normal".

Have I misinterpreted your words?
Is there anything else you'd like to add?
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 11:10 am
echi wrote:
no


So....you'd just like to see humans die out because no one reproduces?

What an idiot.
You're not stubborn. You're stupid.

Yes, I respect your right to not have kids. But someone has to have them.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 11:15 am
echi wrote:
Eva wrote:
Like it or not, our brains as well as our bodies are programmed for reproduction. And survival. So the question "Why have children?" can easily be answered, "Because that's how we're made."


Your answer suggests that we are slaves to our bodies.

Now, that's what I call a lousy attitude.


We are.

Why do you think we've survived this long?

You really need to take a look around you.

I guess you are selfish if you think that just because you don't want to exist anymore that everyone else wants to cease existing.
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 11:19 am
Logic seems to be missing from echi's argument, but that's another subject.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 11:19 am
I know ci.

But stupid people really give me the red ass.

:wink:
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echi
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 11:21 am
Bella Dea wrote:
So....you'd just like to see humans die out because no one reproduces?

[. . .]

Yes, I respect your right to not have kids. But someone has to have them.


No, I would not like to see humans die out.
But that doesn't change the fact that each generation will.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 11:22 am
Ok....so then because we will die we should just stop trying?

But wait, we should stop trying because it's selfish and stupid to have kids. And you don't resepct those that do want children. You're argument is a little flawed.
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echi
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 11:28 am
Bella Dea wrote:
I guess you are selfish if you think that just because you don't want to exist anymore that everyone else wants to cease existing.


I do not want to cease existing. That's a mischaracterization of my position.
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echi
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 11:33 am
Bella Dea wrote:
Ok....so then because we will die we should just stop trying?
...stop trying for what?

Quote:
But wait, we should stop trying because it's selfish and stupid to have kids. And you don't resepct those that do want children. You're argument is a little flawed.
I never claimed it was stupid.
And I never stated that I don't respect those who want children. I respect everyone. But I can't respect everyone's decisions.
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Wed 8 Nov, 2006 11:47 am
echi respects others to have children, but doesn't want them to. hmmmm......
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