can't anyone be homosexual?

Sturgis wrote:

John Creasy wrote:

True, but I'm pretty sure that a naked man will NEVER turn me on.

Sounds like my thoughts about naked women...sure they are right pretty and all, but they don't do a darn thing for me sexually...

I'm sorry to hear that. You don't know what you're missing.

John Creasy wrote:

ehBeth wrote:

I think it's silly to say "never" when it comes to love and sex.
Maybe even dangerous.

I beg to differ. There are men that I love but the thought of being sexual with them is physically repulsive.

The thought might have been repulsive yesterday.
The thought might be repulsive today.
You don't know what your feelings and thoughts will be tomorrow.

Life's like that.

I submit that repulsion equals repression. I do not have a study to back this up, just my opinion based on experience. I am not a psychologist but I have a doctorate in real life experience.

twin_peaks_nikki wrote:

I submit that repulsion equals repression. I do not have a study to back this up, just my opinion based on experience. I am not a psychologist but I have a doctorate in real life experience.

According to that logic, my repulsion (gut wrenching) at the smell of brussel sprouts in boiling water means that I am just repressing an urge to eat them...


Sorry to inform you that it ain't-a-gonna happen.

Sturgis wrote:

twin_peaks_nikki wrote:

I submit that repulsion equals repression. I do not have a study to back this up, just my opinion based on experience. I am not a psychologist but I have a doctorate in real life experience.

According to that logic, my repulsion (gut wrenching) at the smell of brussel sprouts in boiling water means that I am just repressing an urge to eat them...


Sorry to inform you that it ain't-a-gonna happen.

LOL, I think twin peaks thinks a little to highly of her opinions. Repulsion has nothing to do with repression. If my wife doesn't have sex with me for awhile, I certainly don't become repulsed by her.

False analogy. Humans are not Brussel Sprouts.

John Creasy wrote:

Sturgis wrote:

twin_peaks_nikki wrote:

I submit that repulsion equals repression. I do not have a study to back this up, just my opinion based on experience. I am not a psychologist but I have a doctorate in real life experience.

According to that logic, my repulsion (gut wrenching) at the smell of brussel sprouts in boiling water means that I am just repressing an urge to eat them...


Sorry to inform you that it ain't-a-gonna happen.

LOL, I think twin peaks thinks a little to highly of her opinions. Repulsion has nothing to do with repression. If my wife doesn't have sex with me for awhile, I certainly don't become repulsed by her.

I would assume that those periods are quite lengthy. Of course, that has nothing to do with you being a closet case, now does it?

I was having a discussion with a friend about being homosexual and am wondering what you guys think about this..

i feel that one falls in love with another person for their personality, their mind, their feelings, their soul, not for anatomical features, right?

so if you happen to meet someone who is everything you've ever wanted in another person, does is really matter if they are a male or female? maybe you're not initially attracted to that person like you would be to one of the opposite sex, but don't heterosexual relationships start that way too?

i realize that sex plays a major role in every relationship, but is it more important than forgoing being with someone who makes you happy?