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can't anyone be homosexual?

 
 
Deler
 
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Reply Wed 23 Nov, 2005 12:43 pm
twin_peaks_nikki

I believe your ideas of women and relationships in general are tragicaly skewed
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 23 Nov, 2005 12:48 pm
twin_peaks_nikki wrote:

One doesn't have to "turn gay" to be in an intimate woman to woman relationship.


No you don't. But being intimate doesn't alwasy mean sexual either. And I never said I couldn't be intimate with a woman. I said I have no desire to be sexual with one.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 23 Nov, 2005 12:54 pm
I have had sex with women.
Im not gay.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 23 Nov, 2005 12:55 pm
ha

i just re-read that.

that sounds like a little boy whinning

IM NOT GAY!!
IMMMM NOT GAY
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Deler
 
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Reply Wed 23 Nov, 2005 01:46 pm
shewolfnm wrote:
I have had sex with women.
Im not gay.


And your not gay

The only time a relationship becomes gay is when the desire from one outweighs the other

Gay has nothing to do with gender or even whether it is sexual in nature
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 23 Nov, 2005 01:49 pm
i know .
I was just being sarcastic
;-)
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twinpeaksnikki2
 
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Reply Wed 23 Nov, 2005 06:16 pm
Bella Dea wrote:
twin_peaks_nikki wrote:

One doesn't have to "turn gay" to be in an intimate woman to woman relationship.


No you don't. But being intimate doesn't alwasy mean sexual either. And I never said I couldn't be intimate with a woman. I said I have no desire to be sexual with one.


Without realizing it, you made my point. At some point in your life, even though you have no deisre now or your desire is repressed, you might find yourself in a set of circumstances that leads into a very intimate realtionship and at some point take the leap into sex.

I am very surpised that women on the internet take this position so often but in real life I have never had anyone disagree (sometimes after much discussion) with this POV Perhaps, that is because this is a public forum and guys are listening. And also there are many women (and men) who put up a major facade when talking about sex on the internet..
Not that anyone hear does that! (ahem!)
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nimh
 
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Reply Wed 23 Nov, 2005 06:22 pm
I agree with Questioner.
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Fri 25 Nov, 2005 08:03 pm
Twin peaks, by any chance have you had a catscan recently????
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Fri 25 Nov, 2005 08:04 pm
I think it's silly to say "never" when it comes to love and sex.
Maybe even dangerous.
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Fri 25 Nov, 2005 09:09 pm
ehBeth wrote:
I think it's silly to say "never" when it comes to love and sex.
Maybe even dangerous.


I beg to differ. There are men that I love but the thought of being sexual with them is physically repulsive.
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Stevepax
 
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Reply Fri 25 Nov, 2005 09:44 pm
I must admit that I've been bi-curious for some time. Haven't had the guts to try it though Smile
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twinpeaksnikki2
 
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Reply Fri 25 Nov, 2005 10:11 pm
John Creasy wrote:
ehBeth wrote:
I think it's silly to say "never" when it comes to love and sex.
Maybe even dangerous.


I beg to differ. There are men that I love but the thought of being sexual with them is physically repulsive.


Because you fear that you might succumb, no doubt.
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Stevepax
 
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Reply Fri 25 Nov, 2005 11:02 pm
Edit
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Sat 26 Nov, 2005 08:46 am
twin_peaks_nikki wrote:
John Creasy wrote:
ehBeth wrote:
I think it's silly to say "never" when it comes to love and sex.
Maybe even dangerous.


I beg to differ. There are men that I love but the thought of being sexual with them is physically repulsive.


Because you fear that you might succumb, no doubt.


Well, I'm quite amazed. You must be God because you are all-knowing. Rolling Eyes

Actually I have no fear of "succumbing" because in order to succumb there has to be some sort of temptation. There exists no temptation of homosexuality in me. Thanks for your diagnosis though.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 26 Nov, 2005 09:37 am
John Creasy wrote:
ehBeth wrote:
I think it's silly to say "never" when it comes to love and sex.
Maybe even dangerous.


I beg to differ. There are men that I love but the thought of being sexual with them is physically repulsive.


The thought might have been repulsive yesterday.
The thought might be repulsive today.
You don't know what your feelings and thoughts will be tomorrow.

Life's like that.
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Sat 26 Nov, 2005 09:55 am
ehBeth wrote:
John Creasy wrote:
ehBeth wrote:
I think it's silly to say "never" when it comes to love and sex.
Maybe even dangerous.


I beg to differ. There are men that I love but the thought of being sexual with them is physically repulsive.


The thought might have been repulsive yesterday.
The thought might be repulsive today.
You don't know what your feelings and thoughts will be tomorrow.

Life's like that.


True, but I'm pretty sure that a naked man will NEVER turn me on.
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Sturgis
 
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Reply Sat 26 Nov, 2005 10:02 am
John Creasy wrote:
True, but I'm pretty sure that a naked man will NEVER turn me on.



Sounds like my thoughts about naked women...sure they are right pretty and all, but they don't do a darn thing for me sexually...I guess this means I am a homosexual for sure...which I had already suspected and admitted to.
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Sat 26 Nov, 2005 10:12 am
Sturgis wrote:
John Creasy wrote:
True, but I'm pretty sure that a naked man will NEVER turn me on.



Sounds like my thoughts about naked women...sure they are right pretty and all, but they don't do a darn thing for me sexually...


I'm sorry to hear that. You don't know what you're missing. Very Happy
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Sturgis
 
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Reply Sat 26 Nov, 2005 10:18 am
I have had brief moments of curiosity John Creasy; however, it just doesn't do anything for me as far as arousal so I never went that way. Of course, in the overall picture you benefit as there are more ladies for you to romance since I have not had the urge to do so. I suppose what you and I do, is present proof positive that for many, sexuality is not a variable.
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