Nervous and Excited... Take the risk??

I am sooo happy :-), no he didn't call me... I saw him today @ his work and he asked me if I had a minute.... he came outside with me and had a cigarette (yet he gave me sh*t for smoking) and he was like "I am sorry I didn't call you, I was working all weekend and when I wasn't working, I was boozing it up" (thats how he said it)... I said that was ok and then he said he felt like a d*ckhead for not calling... so then he asked me what I did this weekend and told me about his weekend... asked me some more questions, I found out what town he lived in, yada yada yada.. he shook my hand (which I found weird) and then I told him to just give me a call sometime and not to be a stranger (I know I am such a loser :-))

So now I go on the waiting period again, but this time my gut says that he will call me... he seems interested now and he took the time out of a busy lunch schedule just to tell me....

So YIPPEE I picked a good one :-)

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Slappy was right. That guy needs more time to find a script.

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Well I am taking this as he likes me, if not he could have just ingnored me.... I just hope he doesn't have a girlfriend... Err... he is from Brockton, and those from the Boston area will know that Brockton sometimes doesn't have the best trusted people..... just some of them... lol

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ooooh, a girlfriend, I hadn't thought about that.....

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nervous and excited
Crazie Lady ; Very Happy

Yahoo !!! Congratulations !!! There was
good reason why he didn't call. Never mind where he's from. Just keep
on with the plan ! Don't be weirded out by the handshake. I think that was sweet. He's feeling awkward and shy around you because he's interested in you,and doesn't want to make any bad moves. Never mind any
"scripts." Openness and honesty are always best,even if you feel awkward
around each other at first. If he doesn't like your smoking,try not to do it
around him. This guy sounds like a good one !! Very Happy

lindatw

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Little known fact about Brockton:
It was once a seaport.
Then one day the tide went out...
and never came back.

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George wrote:

Little known fact about Brockton:
It was once a seaport.
Then one day the tide went out...
and never came back.

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Chai Tea wrote:

ooooh, a girlfriend, I hadn't thought about that.....

By the way he seems, I don;t think he is taken!! But ya never know

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Re: nervous and excited
lindatw said: There was good reason why he didn't call.

"I am sorry I didn't call you, I was working all weekend and when I wasn't working, I was boozing it up."

Boozing it up is a good reason?

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lindatw wrote:

Crazie Lady ; Yahoo !!! Congratulations !!! There was
good reason why he didn't call. Never mind where he's from. Just keep
on with the plan ! Don't be weirded out by the handshake. I think that was sweet. He's feeling awkward and shy around you because he's interested in you,and doesn't want to make any bad moves. Never mind any
"scripts." Openness and honesty are always best,even if you feel awkward
around each other at first. If he doesn't like your smoking,try not to do it
around him. This guy sounds like a good one !!

lindatw

Thank you!! Yea he seemed alot more shy than usual... but it was cute... he was trying not to screw it up, I could tell Laughing

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Synonymph wrote:

lindatw said: There was good reason why he didn't call.

"I am sorry I didn't call you, I was working all weekend and when I wasn't working, I was boozing it up."

Boozing it up is a good reason?

But at the same time that is what we do, we are young and sorry to say stupid... basically saying that to make himself look like a cool kid.. Laughing

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20-somethings get drunk over the weekends.

Perfectly reasonable excuse not to call.

Or bang a fat broad.

Or wake up with shaved eyebrows.

Or get arrested for stealing lawn ornaments.

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Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:

20-somethings get drunk over the weekends.

Perfectly reasonable excuse not to call.

Of course he was too drunk to call, right!!

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Or bang a fat broad.

Sadly this happens to almost all my guy friends, but usually she is missing all her teeth or something... people always look better when you are drunk

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Or wake up with shaved eyebrows.

Happened to many people and my ex boyfriends sister did this to herself sober

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Or get arrested for stealing lawn ornaments.

Nah we never get caught... I mean that's not nice Laughing

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Too drunk to call? Never. Surprised he didn't 3am drunk-dial you.

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Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:

Too drunk to call? Never. Surprised he didn't 3am drunk-dial you.

lol that would have been hillarious...

I am laughing now just thinking about it

I would have been up though, sadly I partied all weekend and got 5 hours of sleep total between Friday night and Saturday night... But overall it was a good weekend!! Laughing

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Hey should I wait for him to ask me out sometime or should I just ask him tomorrow what he is doing on of these nights and make the move again?? Or would that be too intimidating??

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I'd wait for him to call. You've already given him your number, no need to keep pushing.

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nervous and excited
Very Happy

Absolutely,Crazy Lady. When you see him tomorrow,just casually
ask him what his plans are for the weekend. If he has no plans,ask him to
go out with you. A meal,a movie,etc. Just something casual,and fun. The
more opportunities you and he have for getting to know each other,the better.If he's ready to take the next step and go out with you,this is as good a time as any to find out. Good Luck Exclamation

lindatw

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Screw that. You'll come off as desperate. You've already taken the initiative to give your number, he doesn't need any more "signs" you're interested. If he doesn't call, it means he's not.

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yeah, I'd take slappy's advice all the way on this one cl.

I remember you'd be called a fag, even if you were a girl, if you didn't tell everyone how totally wasted you got each weekend.

It's a rite of passage....

Oh, those 3am drunk calls, how I miss them!

heyyyy,uh baby youthere....yhhggg.
ya well, iwuzazzzzz a thinkin mabbe I'd come over ina lil while. 'k?
mannnn, im sooo hot for youright now....
hey,howyou doin'?
kin i come over,
I'm comin' over , i gotta fine my keys....
bbburppp. oh yeah...comin'over.

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