What if your child as an adult, worked in the porn industry?

yeah, but being a bad influence can make them feel bad and cause emotional damage. you can agree with certain statements but not teach them to your children.

logicalunit42 wrote:

yeah, but being a bad influence can make them feel bad and cause emotional damage. you can agree with certain statements but not teach them to your children.

First of all, you wouldn't be talking to your children about porn when they are at a highly impressionable age. Secondly, how would my opinion about not judging people be a bad influence? Thirdly, if you raise your child to believe that you are to respect everyone, even if you don't agree with them, that's a good thing. Fourthly, where did anyone say anything about teaching kids that porn is ok? My parents didn't sit me down one day and say "porn is ok". I was educated enough and independent enough to make my own decisions about it.

LOL.

I know what a medical examiner is. I just don't have any knowledge of who they are.

Removing each individual organ, measuring it, weighing it, taking and labeling samples, collecting forensic evidence, putting everything back together when one is done is not detail oriented?

I personally wouldn't have any problem with this (Except for the going-through-medical-school part; I don't have 10 years of my life to devote to it.). Dead bodies are nothing more than very complex engines that don't run anymore.

Bella Dea wrote:

logicalunit42 wrote:

yeah, but being a bad influence can make them feel bad and cause emotional damage. you can agree with certain statements but not teach them to your children.

First of all, you wouldn't be talking to your children about porn when they are at a highly impressionable age. Secondly, how would my opinion about not judging people be a bad influence? Thirdly, if you raise your child to believe that you are to respect everyone, even if you don't agree with them, that's a good thing. Fourthly, where did anyone say anything about teaching kids that porn is ok? My parents didn't sit me down one day and say "porn is ok". I was educated enough and independent enough to make my own decisions about it.

you're exagerating all the basis for your logical conclusions.

logicalunit42 wrote:

Bella Dea wrote:

logicalunit42 wrote:

yeah, but being a bad influence can make them feel bad and cause emotional damage. you can agree with certain statements but not teach them to your children.

First of all, you wouldn't be talking to your children about porn when they are at a highly impressionable age. Secondly, how would my opinion about not judging people be a bad influence? Thirdly, if you raise your child to believe that you are to respect everyone, even if you don't agree with them, that's a good thing. Fourthly, where did anyone say anything about teaching kids that porn is ok? My parents didn't sit me down one day and say "porn is ok". I was educated enough and independent enough to make my own decisions about it.

you're exagerating all the basis for your logical conclusions.

What?

Now, would a "normal" person want to do this? THis isn't detail oriented. This can be downright disgusting. Nothing like sawing a persons head open and putting their brain on a scale next to you. Or boiling a skull in order to clean it for face reconstruction? Or having to crack the rib cage of a person to get to their innards?

This argument is getting silly.

How can you even compare a medical examiner to a porn star? A medical examiner performs a much needed public service while a porn star f**ks on film for cash. Sure an MEs job might be disgusting to some people but it is a worthy and neccesary service.

This argument is getting silly.

Bella Dea wrote:

Now, would a "normal" person want to do this? THis isn't detail oriented. This can be downright disgusting. Nothing like sawing a persons head open and putting their brain on a scale next to you. Or boiling a skull in order to clean it for face reconstruction? Or having to crack the rib cage of a person to get to their innards?

not to change the subject..
But i would love to do that for a living.
I am not a whole person. Truthfully..

I'm not sure that being a medical examiner is any more difficult than working in an ER, or being an EMT, or a firefighter, or any number of specialized jobs.

But just imagine: Cracking open someone's cadaver to find it full of spiders that start to crawl all over you!

jpinMilwaukee wrote:

This argument is getting silly.

How can you even compare a medical examiner to a porn star? A medical examiner performs a much needed public service while a porn star f**ks on film for cash. Sure an MEs job might be disgusting to some people but it is a worthy and neccesary service.

You can compare it because some people can't fathom how any normal person could do the work of an ME. Just like you can't fathom that normal people would do the work of a porn star. Some people don't want an autopsy performed because it is desecration of the body. Some people don't agree with porn because it's "not normal" sex.

it does take some sort of sexual damage to a person to feel that sex is good to sell.

A number of responses came to mind. Here they are, in no particular order.

1. Well, it is A2K.

2. Who are you, Graham Chapman?

3. YOU'RE NOT MY DAD!

At any rate, that would be job one for me -- determining through research/ consultation with experts how the sexual abuse and porn would interact, and taking a much stronger stand than baseline if indications were that it would be dangerous for this specific guy.