The Causes Of Homosexuality in men

**I believe I know The causes of Homosexual Orientation (HO) in men.
Homosexual men (HM) were having pathological relationships with both of their parents. Usually, the father was hostile and detached from the son who's to develop HO or either the father was mostly or completely absent from the boy's life during most/all his childhood and adolescence years.
In addition, the relationship with the mother was highly defective - the mother is the dominant in the house, as oppose to the father or both parents are equal in their power and influence in the home.
In addition, the mom is very controlling on the boy, usually unawarely, trying to make him effeminate in many ways. She's influencing him not to play sports, displaying aggressiveness or assertiveness. To the contrary, she's encouraging him to develop effeminate characteristics such as softness, gentleness, politeness. shyness etc. The mom is usually also "sexually rigid" as a consequence of conservative rearing and she transfers this rigidness (beliefs) to the boy. The relationship between the parents is usually also pathological, as the mother is usually the dominant and even humiliating toward the father. There isn't much love between them and as far as not displaying any gesture of love or affection between them. It's common for the parents to fight and argue a lot. The mother, as a compensation, gives much love and attention to the boy who's to develop HO and so the father becomes hostile and detached from the boy, who he's envy for the mother's love. The boy senses it and learn to hide his sexual desire toward his mom and women in generally. He connects in his mind sexual desire toward women to fear of his father and to losing his mom's love, as I've mentioned before the mom's rigidness and forbidness toward sex and heterosexual attributes such as aggressiveness etc. Therefore his heterosexuality is blocked and repressed to the point of extinction.
As a consequence of all of the above, the boy develops a pathological psyche regarding his beliefs around love, relationships, sex, his capabilities etc and he becomes unstable emotionally. Common traits are neediness, insecurity, unstable mood, fragileness etc. As a consequence of developing unhealthy psyche, he becomes a homosexual man. That's because he doesn't feel confidant as a man nor in his ability to provide and take care to a woman. he's yearning his father love, acceptance and appreciation, which translate into a sexual desire toward other men. He craves his father's love so much, that this craving turn into an endless need to please other men to get their confirmation and acceptance. That's why so many homosexuals have a substantially high amount of affairs and "one night's stand" relationships.
That's the main idea, though there are more factors influencing in the direction of developing HO, such as envy for the father's love toward the boy's sister/brother, an event of being sexually molested as a child or teenager etc.

**I apologize for my mistakes in English if there are.