IS THE FEMALE REALLY CAPABLE OF TRUE LOVE

JLLLLLL wrote:

Lord Ellpus wrote:
JLLLLLL wrote:
Lord Ellpus wrote:
JLLLLLLLLL, Just out of interest, old boy.....do you drink a lot of coffee, perchance?
no what do that have to do with any thing

It's just that I have read about six posts, and have yet to witness a pause.

That is exactly how I speak when I've consumed four strong cups of coffee.
let me guess your english right

Yes, English by birth and by language...... and you are?

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Lord Ellpus wrote:

JLLLLLL wrote:
Lord Ellpus wrote:
JLLLLLL wrote:
Lord Ellpus wrote:
JLLLLLLLLL, Just out of interest, old boy.....do you drink a lot of coffee, perchance?
no what do that have to do with any thing

It's just that I have read about six posts, and have yet to witness a pause.

That is exactly how I speak when I've consumed four strong cups of coffee.
let me guess your english right

Yes, English by birth and by language...... and you are?

STRONG AMERICAN. sorry to say old boy but i rather think that the men under the queen are a bit girley, i mean that the woman wear the pants and the men dont have a tool to handle it.

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I got a psych degree from the Close Cover Before Striking Academy and I get the feeling that some woman gave you a hard time about your status in life. If so don't pay it no mind. A woman that judges you by your income isn't worthy of you.Better to wait for one that accepts you unconditionally.

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Bella Dea wrote:

JLLLLLL wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
Some women think income is important just like some guys think size DD breasts are important. Generalizing either of the sexes on what they want in a mate is just silly and you will get nowhere.
So my statement is true that most if not all females look for the big bank role in the wallet. whats in your wallet. thats from a commercial.

How is my statement validating yours? I said some. Just like some people like spaghetti and some don't.

Any ways i would rather hear from the ladys it is them that the question is toward can a woman really love or is it the size of the mans wallet. when they look into the eyes of a male can they see his weakness and when he is weak why is it that she will stomp him and the rest of his ego.

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panzade wrote:

I got a psych degree from the Close Cover Before Striking Academy and I get the feeling that some woman gave you a hard time about your status in life. If so don't pay it no mind. A woman that judges you by your income isn't worthy of you.Better to wait for one that accepts you unconditionally.

no usually iam the one who dumps the lady and find another i do how ever belive in treating them like ladys so they tell me things they just tell me all their thrills and spills. iam looking for a special lady one that is not a money crazed female.

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JLLLLLL wrote:

Lord Ellpus wrote:
JLLLLLL wrote:
Lord Ellpus wrote:
JLLLLLL wrote:
Lord Ellpus wrote:
JLLLLLLLLL, Just out of interest, old boy.....do you drink a lot of coffee, perchance?
no what do that have to do with any thing

It's just that I have read about six posts, and have yet to witness a pause.

That is exactly how I speak when I've consumed four strong cups of coffee.
let me guess your english right

Yes, English by birth and by language...... and you are?
STRONG AMERICAN. sorry to say old boy but i rather think that the men under the queen are a bit girley, i mean that the woman wear the pants and the men dont have a tool to handle it.

Those who are afraid of dominant women, really are afraid that they may be the type of man that can be dominated.
Personally, I love women with spirit, it makes life so much more interesting.

As far as being a bit girley is concerned, I am not in the least bothered by what your opinions may be.
I was simply pointing out that your posts prove difficult to read.

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Lord Ellpus wrote:

JLLLLLL wrote:
Lord Ellpus wrote:
JLLLLLL wrote:
Lord Ellpus wrote:
JLLLLLL wrote:
Lord Ellpus wrote:
JLLLLLLLLL, Just out of interest, old boy.....do you drink a lot of coffee, perchance?
no what do that have to do with any thing

It's just that I have read about six posts, and have yet to witness a pause.

That is exactly how I speak when I've consumed four strong cups of coffee.
let me guess your english right

Yes, English by birth and by language...... and you are?
STRONG AMERICAN. sorry to say old boy but i rather think that the men under the queen are a bit girley, i mean that the woman wear the pants and the men dont have a tool to handle it.
Ive spent some time in jolly old england and it was a good experience, love the ladys there and a lot of the blokes are pretty chummie, but they just seem a odd, a bit weak when it comes to the opposite sex.

Those who are afraid of dominant women, really are afraid that they may be the type of man that can be dominated.
Personally, I love women with spirit, it makes life so much more interesting.

As far as being a bit girley is concerned, I am not in the least bothered by what your opinions may be.
I was simply pointing out that your posts prove difficult to read.

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The biggest problem I see here is that JLLLLLLL is talking about "boys and girls" and NOT talking about "men and women" when he speaks of his personal situations. Big maturity difference. Which might also explain the television obsession and belief that everything on tv is real and honest. Just like Jerry Springer and his "15 minutes of fame" junkies.

JLLLLLL, I honestly believe you need to get a grip on reality. Slappy made some good points in his post about the dating scene that there do seem to be quite a few manhunters out there, but is that someone you really want to bring home to meet mom? Probably not. And just as there are those "money grubbing females" out there, there are just as many "money grubbing males" that would love nothing better than to have a sugar mama take care of them.

When I married, I did not marry for money at all. I could have. Instead of marrying the young up and coming exec for United Artist Pictures, I married a grocery store clerk.

Don't be so quick to judge and throw everyone into the same Oprah, Dr. Phil, Maury Povich pot and simply assume every woman is like that. Prejudgement will get you no where.

So...what type of woman are you looking for? A sugar mama?

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The funny thing is, there's many more sugar daddies out there than sugar mammas. For one, males make more money. Period. Two, it's more common for older men to date/marry younger women, than vice-versa. Why is this? One possible reason, I don't hear of many young women marrying older men who don't have money.

Another thing...women who are gold diggers obviously aren't going to come across as such when they first date/marry the man. And even if they're not gold-diggers, they generally have much less to lose in case of a divorce.

Even if a woman goes into a marriage with absolutely no intention of gold digging, or she is truly in it for the love....if things don't work out in the future, a divorce attorney will change her attitude real quick, and/or the court is going to rule in her favor.

I can't tell you how many times I've heard married guys tell me "man, I love my wife and everything, but I miss being single," or "don't rush into marriage!"

A smart man learns from his mistakes.....a smarter man learns from other people's mistakes. I have no problem with committed relationships, but no DeBeers purchases for me!

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I will not call myself a gold digger but stable income( note: I said stable not more nor less) would surely be a factor when I am looking for a guy to get married. Having said that I would not date a guy who does not have a stable income even if he is HOT and gets me all drooling over him Smile

I am a kind of person who likes to see a stable future or likes to save for kids college, for their upbringing.. etc. So, my not working is also not an option. Doesn't matter weather my husband has an income less than me or more than me. As long as both of our incomes put together is enough for us in old age and enough for our kids, i'm OK.

But now I am married. If at this time, he looses his job or anything happens to that stable income.. will I leave him???? of course NOT. because I love him.

That is what is love.. don't base your decision on couple you have seen. I am sorry you have been unlucky to get into only the wrong types. But the majority of them are not like the ones you described.

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I think that it goes both ways.

There always the guy that goes to school, doesn't party, does his homework and then one day makes alot of money. his girlfriend then dumps him for a good looking poor guy that works at a cofee shop.

Then there is the guy who parties, drinks, goes out, has a dead end job, but is a good person. his girlfriend dumps him for some harvard graduate with a huge mansion and a benz.

So who do we feel sorry for? I've dated so many women, i've been dumped for both reasons. There are a couple of girls who think i was a total nerd and dumped me. I also went out with a few upscale girls who didn't feel me because i didn't have a ivy league degree and make 80k a year out of college.

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"THE FEMALE"?!?! C'mon now.... Get real and start talking like a grown up. You need to learn to look at women as people and individuals rather than just the animals that make up other half of the "species". And I agree with Bella; you should stop basing your life philosophy on sensational television.

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Someone said it best when they said JLLLLLL is talking about boys and girls, not men and women. Reality seems to have creeped in as JLLLLLL has not responded in a while.

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I am thinking that JLL works at a fast food joint and is embarassed at his job, isnt confident in himself or his life and is attracting people ( girls ) who treat him exactly the way he THINKS about himself.

make sence?

( my Dr Phil observation.............. )

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shewolfnm wrote:

I am thinking that JLL works at a fast food joint and is embarassed at his job, isnt confident in himself or his life and is attracting people ( girls ) who treat him exactly the way he THINKS about himself.

make sence?

( my Dr Phil observation.............. )

So true...which is why so many girls fall for the "Bad Boy". Those guys ooze confidence...the "I don't care what you think of me" vibe and women love that. Confidence is incredibly sexy.

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so, penis extension, hiar gel and a motorcycle?
is that what you are suggesting Bella Oprah?

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shewolfnm wrote:

so, penis extension, hiar gel and a motorcycle?
is that what you are suggesting Bella Oprah?

No, of course not!

You completely forgot the cigarettes.

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ahhh yes BelOprah.
you are so right!

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Lord Ellpus wrote:

alakritz wrote:
You really think becoming gay will weed out a bad person? Then I have some gay friends that you should talk to that will tell hair raising stories of the men that took their money and cheated on them. Bad character has no boundaries and doesn't dicriminate. But might I suggest not dating as a viable option. Don't throw your hat into the ring, then we have nothng to read about here. I for one am for that.

'Twas an attempt at humour, that sadly fell flat. Nothing more.

'Twas an attempt at truth. But I see cheek is alive and well and boring.

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