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Mon 11 Jul, 2005 12:19 pm
I have been looking at different shows like maurey and opraha and phill and all ive seen is the female, me me me me all about her and not about someone else. at times iam convinced that the female species of the human race dosent love just use and gather for her needs and no one else like the story samson and delia it was all about her. and the greed of the female. are there stories of a female that hooked up with a male not for whats in his pocket but whats in his heart if so tell me aboout it,ide like to hear so i can fell better about the female part of the human race not just thinking that their only money groobers.
Well your first mistake is thinking that those people on those shows represent the actual population.
And my story is just that. I was with someone who had money and I left him to marry my husband who doesn't have money.
Bella Dea wrote:And my story is just that. I was with someone who had money and I left him to marry my husband who doesn't have money.
So all i hear is i i i me me me so are u the one making most of the money or is the new boo.
He makes more than me now but when we married I was making more money.
Actually, come to think of it, he had just lost his job when we got married so I definitly was making more money.
Bella Dea wrote:Well your first mistake is thinking that those people on those shows represent the actual population.
most of the time its because society has pushed the female to this train of thought and thats what she goes by the male has to be the bread winner in her mind if the male is not makeing more then she is hes not worthy of her. so she seeks that all mighty dollar. and not whats in the heart of the male.
JLLLLLL wrote:Bella Dea wrote:Well your first mistake is thinking that those people on those shows represent the actual population.
most of the time its because society has pushed the female to this train of thought and thats what she goes by the male has to be the bread winner in her mind if the male is not makeing more then she is hes not worthy of her. so she seeks that all mighty dollar. and not whats in the heart of the male.
In what century do you live? Most females I know are the exact opposite.
I think you need to turn off the TV.
Bella Dea wrote:Actually, come to think of it, he had just lost his job when we got married so I definitly was making more money.
OK so was he able to bounce back with a job that made him a good amount of lute because of his profession and did you figure that he would bring in big bank later on or is he the one making the most money now.
There is no job with a guarantee.
Bella Dea wrote:JLLLLLL wrote:Bella Dea wrote:Well your first mistake is thinking that those people on those shows represent the actual population.
most of the time its because society has pushed the female to this train of thought and thats what she goes by the male has to be the bread winner in her mind if the male is not makeing more then she is hes not worthy of her. so she seeks that all mighty dollar. and not whats in the heart of the male.
In what century do you live? Most females I know are the exact opposite.
SO do most females that you know go after the wealthy guys or the guys that make less then they do. or do they he dont have on armoney shoes so he dont make enough for me to talk to. or some thing like that.
Bella Dea wrote:There is no job with a guarantee.
bet you wouldnt date a guy that makes less then you do say he worked at a car wash but was a really good guy just that he worked at a carwash bet you wouldnt date him.
Some women think income is important just like some guys think size DD breasts are important. Generalizing either of the sexes on what they want in a mate is just silly and you will get nowhere.
JLLLLLL wrote:Bella Dea wrote:There is no job with a guarantee.
bet you wouldnt date a guy that makes less then you do say he worked at a car wash but was a really good guy just that he worked at a carwash bet you wouldnt date him.
No I wouldn't because I'm married.
But if my husband lost his job, I wouldn't love him any less. It's called an adult relationship and a marriage.
Are you saying that working at a car wash isn't honest work?
Chai Tea wrote:I think you need to turn off the TV.
I bet you make good money and i also bet that you wouldnt date aguy that makes less than you do probely your freinds would talk about him and that would make you not date him i know what girls talk about when they are together on the town at a club or where ever girls hang out with their freinds. and its mostly about the guys wallet.
Bella Dea wrote:JLLLLLL wrote:Bella Dea wrote:There is no job with a guarantee.
bet you wouldnt date a guy that makes less then you do say he worked at a car wash but was a really good guy just that he worked at a carwash bet you wouldnt date him.
No I wouldn't because I'm married.
But if my husband lost his job, I wouldn't love him any less. It's called an adult relationship and a marriage.
Are you saying that working at a car wash isn't honest work?
Iam saying is that if you were not married now and you had the job or all jobs and there was this good looking hunk at the car wash and he made a pass at you, you would kick him to the curb because he didnt match up to your expectations of a male with good enough bank in his wallet for you to even look at twice no matter his looks.
JLLLLLL wrote:Bella Dea wrote:JLLLLLL wrote:Bella Dea wrote:There is no job with a guarantee.
bet you wouldnt date a guy that makes less then you do say he worked at a car wash but was a really good guy just that he worked at a carwash bet you wouldnt date him.
No I wouldn't because I'm married.
But if my husband lost his job, I wouldn't love him any less. It's called an adult relationship and a marriage.
Are you saying that working at a car wash isn't honest work?
Iam saying is that if you were not married now and you had the job or all jobs and there was this good looking hunk at the car wash and he made a pass at you, you would kick him to the curb because he didnt match up to your expectations of a male with good enough bank in his wallet for you to even look at twice no matter his looks.
Of course not. If he's hot, I'd talk to him. If I liked him, we'd go out. If it went well, we'd see from there. And that is exactly what happened when I met my hubby. I didn't care what he did.
Bella Dea wrote:Some women think income is important just like some guys think size DD breasts are important. Generalizing either of the sexes on what they want in a mate is just silly and you will get nowhere.
So my statement is true that most if not all females look for the big bank role in the wallet. whats in your wallet. thats from a commercial.
Bella Dea wrote:JLLLLLL wrote:Bella Dea wrote:JLLLLLL wrote:Bella Dea wrote:There is no job with a guarantee.
bet you wouldnt date a guy that makes less then you do say he worked at a car wash but was a really good guy just that he worked at a carwash bet you wouldnt date him.
No I wouldn't because I'm married.
But if my husband lost his job, I wouldn't love him any less. It's called an adult relationship and a marriage.
Are you saying that working at a car wash isn't honest work?
Iam saying is that if you were not married now and you had the job or all jobs and there was this good looking hunk at the car wash and he made a pass at you, you would kick him to the curb because he didnt match up to your expectations of a male with good enough bank in his wallet for you to even look at twice no matter his looks.
Of course not. If he's hot, I'd talk to him. If I liked him, we'd go out. If it went well, we'd see from there. And that is exactly what happened when I met my hubby. I didn't care what he did.
so when you met him was he making more than you. or were you both in the same finicial status
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