recently i figured out his password to his e-mail and caught him subscribing to a porn website.
I can't even organise my own passwords, let alone try to work out other people's! p.s. our sex life isnt lacking AT ALL, and he cheated on his ex-wife in person, over the internet and in strip clubs multiple times
porn is an abomination to the creator you must burn and destroy all the porn from your home,it is a filthy sin that satin has trick you into watching,give it up now. repent your evil ways .
First let me start by telling everyone how grateful I am that you all have posted your stories. It is such a relief to know that I am not alone.
I have been married for 13 years and my husband has always known my feelings about porn and other naked women in general. The idea of him searching for that sort of thing is hurtful to me and he's made it clear that since it's not important to him, it's something he could do without. We have watched videos together in the past. Note the word TOGETHER. To be honest, we'd watch for awhile then get down to business and forget it was still running.
A few years ago I came across porn sites on the cache of our computer. My first thought was that since my brother-in-law had been using the computer it must have been him. I made a comment to my husband about it and he fessed up. I was shocked and hurt. We spent about a week fighting/discussing the issue and I thought it was behind us...until about a month ago. We have our own computers now, and I was using his to upload digital photos when I came across some porn address saved by the autocomplete feature. He thought he'd done his best to hide his surfing. Again I gave him the benefit of the doubt and thought it was possibly spam related. When I asked him about it, he tried to deny it, but he's not a good liar and he fessed up. He's been doing it regularly! I was so hurt, I've never felt so low. He tried to turn it around on me, he told me I was not sexual enough (so not true). He told me its a "guy thing". He got mad at me for trying to control him and told me to mind my own business! He's told me to lighten up, and he's said that spanking his monkey to porn is sometimes less complicated than real sex. I feel sick. It feels like he cheated on me. When I asked him to stop he said that's a hard thing to promise because he's got a long life ahead of him. Then he said if he promised not to..then he's giving me all the control. Then he did finally promise but I don't know if I can trust him.
Is it so much to ask that a wife's body is all that a husband needs? He used to watch me undress and make such a big deal and it felt so special. It does not feel special anymore. Now I just imagine all the other bodies he's looked at in the same way and I feel sick.
I'm trying really hard to put this behind me but it's difficult. I've lost respect for the man. Please help.
s hello, phat thats p. h. a. t. make that man slobber on his self keep th boy in line. most of the female species get s too comfortable in a live in love thing and let themselves go so get it back. hello 
And men don't let themselves go, JLLLLLL?
HA! There are more married beer bellies in this country....
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And men don't let themselves go, JLLLLLL?
HA! There are more married beer bellies in this country....
Hi there
I have read all the replies on this topic with interest! I too have a boyfriend that continually looks at porn. He has actually saved video clips of it on the PC i am using at the moment. I have tried to pretend this doesn't bother me but in reality it is tearing me apart. It is even more hurtful to know that he is doing it whilst I am in the house downstairs. I have never refused to have sex with him and I feel as though it is affecting our sex life. He used to want it all the time, and now he doesn't seem that interested - its no wonder really!
I am still quite young - 23 years old and without sounding big headed am quite slim and pretty. We plan to marry and have kids etc but I really dread to think what this kind of thing will do to me when we are married and I have put on a bit of weight after carrying all his children - I think Iam barely able to cope with it now because I can almost compare to the girls that are on the websites. For an older woman or someone who is not confident about their body, I can imagine it would be even more heartbreaking.
I have read all the replies on this site and I can appreciate that most girls find it acceptable. I have had a very strict upbringing - my dad did not look at porn at every opportunity - in fact, he never did! I have been brought up in a strict environment and to believe that partners should be faithful to each other. My mother would be disgusted if she found my dad looking at porn and I have been brought up with the same ideas about things. I am now finding it very hard to cope with what women accept from men these days - it is very difficult to accept your boyfriend looking at pornography when you have been brought up to believe that this kind of thing is wrong.
What is more, the fact that he is doing it while I am in the house is an insult to me - it makes me feel like he is not happy with me and if that is the case, I wish he would just say so. We have talked about it slightly and he just laughs it off and says he only does it when I am on my period. This is not true because when you look at the properties of a computer file, it gives you the last time and date it was modified. He is doing it all the time! I could see this being a big problem in some marriages. I actually found an interesting website:
http://newyorkmetro.com/nymetro/nightlife/sex/columns/mating/12044/
It gives an account of how on-line porn is destroying relationships.
I am not coping very well right now, but when I am 45, have put on a little weight and have started to get wrinkles, I will be destraught!
Confused1
and stuff but dang so insecure, just stay in shape and mybe that will help and why dont you start looking at play girl and bring up male sites and tell him that his still the man but u look at porn of males hum may be he will start feeling the same way you do or may be not.
I have another question. I have been married two years, and he looks at porn. Ok, some say no biggie. I accept that...but, he looks at these 18 year old who are really trying to look 15 in the photos. For example, in little girl underwear and little girl room scenarios. What does this say about fantasy or what? Does he actually want to have sex with a little teen girl or what? Please help...I have a young daughter, and this REALLY disturbs me. Can anyone shed some light on what these mean? Does he check out these "little girl teens (15 yr olds) at the mall when we are there? or am I way off base?
hello stareing at you. you can not be trying and see that you know what . ive even seen them with their parents also dad mom grannie they dont care. and as far as the girls with the little looks the porn is there hes going to look at it too, but if he starts getting to chummie with your daughter i would be a bit conserned, is she his daughter. and just talk to him about it and dont be judge mentle just talk and see where his mind is at not nagging just talking to him.
